My grocery shopping is rarely by ‘Need’ – rather what’s a super good buy on sale with coupons etc. (and is something I do use) I stock up. I’m not comfortable without having about a year’s supply of food stocked in.

Good, if that works for you. I make also a list for shopping, but see it not as a limit but as guidance, especially not to forget certain things. I always forget to put something on the list, but I then think in the store about buying it anyhow if we will use it soon. If we won’t or it is above some threshold (50 or 100 dollars), I like to delay the purchase to see later if we really need it.

Ever once in a while I’ll get a wild idea on something i might want to do or buy. I’ll do lots of research on what it would take. Usually I’ll end up deciding it’s not for me, or just too expensive. If the idea doesn’t go away, then it’s time to start saving up for it.

Have also found that doing some less expensive things can be a lot more fun. Renting a movie is not only cheaper, the chairs and couches at home are more comfortable. Plus, you don’t have to listen to people talking throughout the movie.

You are right that life without satisfying some wants would be pretty grim. Having a few extravigances can make life more fun. Not getting carried away with them makes each one more meaningful.