Can One Choose Not To Participate In A Recession?

Dave Ramsey thinks so. Let me preface this post by saying I’m a huge Dave Ramsey fan.  I’ve read nearly all his books, attended a Live Event, and listen to his show at least a couple times a week.  Every now and then he says something that tweaks me just a bit.

Over the last few months I’ve heard him (and others) toss around the idea that one can choose whether or not they participate in this recession. I know what he’s getting at, and depending on how your personal economy is going you might even find it inspirational.  However, if you just got laid off, and suffered some setbacks in the weeks and months leading up to it which melted your emergency fund, you may think differently.

A few months ago I wrote a post titled the Serenity Prayer For Finances.  Basically, it broke down the words of the serenity prayer and applied a financial spin.  Ramsey’s comments caused me to reflect on those words again, and wonder what things I have control over, and what I don’t.  Here’s what I thought a few months ago:

Stop and think for a moment about all the things that are currently causing stress in your financial life.  I bet there are quite a few you have control over, like overspending or expensive car payments.  But if you are like me there may be other things that are outside of your control, yet they continue to cause stress.

I still believe that’s true, and I’ve lived it for the last eight months.  My mom suffered an aneurysm and stroke at 53 years young last September.  She did things the right way – had a good job, good insurance, a little (very little) socked away for emergencies.  But nothing could fully prepare someone for 162 days in the hospital out of the last eight months, being reduced to disability pay, and watching her retirement savings be decimated in a bear market.  It was a perfect storm in her financial life, and it will probably affect her for the rest of her life.

The silver lining (and believe me, our family has had to long and hard to find one), is that watching her go through this has had a profound effect on us.  For the younger ones, it is a sobering reminder how quickly the carpet can be pulled out from under you – just when you thought you were hitting your stride.  It was a reminder that no matter how well you prepare, there is always that unknown lurking out there that can knock you off your feet – quite literally.

So I take exception to what Ramsey says.  Not everyone can choose not to participate in this recession.  The single mom working a part time job because her ex got laid off and no longer sends child support certainly is participating in the recession.  The husband and father of two delivering pizzas at night because the plant he works at reduced his hours is participating in the recession.  The kids feeling depressed and anxious because they overheard their parents fighting about money are participating in the recession.

I chose not to participate, too, until the recession found me and participated in my life.  Sometimes, that’s just the way it works.  Whether it is fate, or just bad luck, we’ll never know.  But to suggest our family, or any other family, chose this fate is naive.  Sometimes bad things happen to good people.  It doesn’t make them bad people.

How To Make A Survival Key Chain

My first edition of Backwoods Home magazine arrived this week, and I was looking forward to carving out some reading time.  One of the articles that immediately caught my eye was A Survival Key Ring – Your Everyday Tool for Emergency Preparedness by Jeffrey R. Yago, P.E., CEM.

In the article, Yago shares his ideas for putting together a survival key chain.  Think of survival key chains as a miniature, portable survival kit with pocket-size bare necessities.  I thought it sounded like a great idea, so I set out to find a few of the suggested implements.  I added a few more of my own.  First, a few examples when these survival key chains could come in handy.

Ever been stranded on the side of the road in a cold climate?  Ever gone camping and realized you forgot to pack matches or a torch lighter for your campfire?  Ever been in a building you are not familiar with during a complete power blackout?  I have been in all three of these situations, and unfortunately I was ill-prepared.  The survival key chain would have definitely come in handy in each of these scenarios.

The Key Ring

Key ring styles.  Plenty to choose from here, from the basic design to pull-apart dual rings to caribiner styles that look more like rock-climbing tools that key rings. You may decide some combination works best for you, or perhaps you have a weekday key ring and a weekend key ring – one for the office, one for camping expeditions.

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Lights and Multi-Tools

Knife or multi-tool.  Lights and a cutting tool are two items I would consider “required components” of any good survival keychain.  Again, you can spend as much or as little as you wish on the various styles.  Utility knifes such as a Swiss Army knife with fold-out instruments may be sufficient for most every-day survival key chains.  However, a heavier-duty mini Leatherman might make more sense for backpacking or camping.  I’ve ordered a Leatherman MICRA model myself because I like the idea of having things like scissors, tweezers, a flat Phillips screwdriver, a mini screwdriver, a bottle opener, and a variety of small cutting tools on me at all times.  Just remember, you can’t fly with something like this, so leave these types of things at home when traveling by air.

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Mini LED flashlight.  As for flashlights, we’ve come a long way.  They now make super-bright LED flashlights the size of a quarter that last for hours.  No shortage of these around, and it is definitely something to add to your survival key ring.  From unlocking doors in the dark to navigating, these little lights will come in handy.

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Navigation and Fire-Making

Fire starter bar.  Survival television shows often show a guy making a fire by turning a stick 10,000 times into a small piece of wood with tiny kindling eventually smoldering from the friction.  The fact is, this is as hard as it looks, and it take a lot of time and energy – two things you may not have depending on your survival situation.  I’m sure any survival expert would tell you dry matches or a fire starter bar would be preferable, so why not keep one with you.  You never know when you’ll need to make camp somewhere, and a fire is great for keeping warm.  It might be the difference is surviving or suffering hypothermia.

This little fire starter bar fits on your key chain, and generates a hot fire in under a minute.  Using the backside of a pocketknife, or any other metal edge, you simply scrape magnesium shavings onto a sheet of paper, or scrap cloth, or whatever dry kindling you can find.  Then a scrape down the striker rod produces a spark that ignites the magnesium shavings (and your kindling).  Warning:  this produces an extremely hot, extremely bright little fire.  Be sure to take precautions by preparing the area around the fire (dig a little fire pit, clear the ground, etc.).

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Compass.  For navigation, basically you just need to find general directions from a key ring compass.  Anything that reliably points North will do. From there you can extrapolate other directions, but for basic navigation something like the model below should work fine.  If you find yourself lost, and you know a little about the surrounding terrain, you may be able to make it to a road, a river, or a town, just by knowing which direction to move.

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Self Defense/Rescue

Pepper spray.  Whether you are defending yourself from an attacker, or an aggressive animal, a quick burst of pepper spray may provide a valuable few seconds to make an escape.  I recommend considering something more powerful if you are headed into the woods where you are likely to encounter larger, more threatening animals, but for most urban and rural settings this should do the trick.

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Safety whistle.  Few people think of whistles when putting together a survival kit, but it is one of the more valuable rescue tools available.  When I was a kid, I remember a story near my home town of a woman who skidded off the road at night, went down a small ravine, and was pinned in her car, injured.  She did not have the strength to scream, and joggers and bicyclists went by for hours not knowing she was trapped just a couple hundred yards away.  Fortunately, her car was finally spotted a couple days after the accident and she was rescued, barely clinging to life.  Imagine how much better the story could have turned out had she had a safety whistle on her key chain to alert a passerby or rescuer in the hours immediately following the accident.

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The frugal side of me recognizes that putting together such a survival keychain from scratch could be costly.  I’d recommend starting off with the basic implements such as the multi-tool and flashlight.  Those will handle the majority of small emergencies you will encounter in your day-to-day lives.  Slowly add to your survival key ring over time to spread out the costs.  Eventually, you’ll have just about everything you need for survival right on your keychain, and with you at all times.

4 Habits for Saving Money on Routine Family Medical Care

The following guest column is from Paul at www.healthharbor.com.  HealthHarbor is a site devote to helping people be smarter consumers of healthcare.  It provides ideas and guidance on saving money on healthcare, getting the most from your health coverage, and hosts an online community devoted to healthcare spending topics.

As healthcare expenses become a larger and larger component of a typical family budget, people are continuously looking for ways to keep them in check.  Like any other component of your budget, the financial habits you keep can make a big difference on how large your annual healthcare tab is.  While there are dozens of things that can shave costs off of a healthcare tab and medical bills, here are four habits that any family can incorporate and, if done consistently, can easily add up to hundreds of dollars of annual savings, or more.

Habit #1: Inventory Your Coverage. Doing a thorough analysis of your health coverage on an annual basis is a habit that can save you and your family significant money in the long run.  It can be tempting to rush through your health coverage forms whenever your open enrollment period rolls around, simply carrying forward your prior year choices, or estimating your coverage needs with little research.  Instead of rushing through this process, sit down with your Explanation of Benefits (EOB) forms from your year’s worth of healthcare expenditures.  Understand where there may be gaps in your coverage and how you can adjust your insurance to maximize it.  Are you getting significant out-of-pocket costs due to a recurring non-covered procedure that a child requires, such as a therapy?  Is your family a heavier user of preventative care than you may have assumed, leaving you with the expense for care above and beyond your plan’s baseline?  If you work for an employer who offers multiple insurance options, you may find that you’ve been selecting a plan that is either too limiting or too complex for your family’s needs, and should explore an option that you assumed was not for you.  In other cases, you may find that shifting entirely to a spouse’s insurance is the smartest move for your family.  See HealthHarbor’s special article on When it May Make Sense to Drop Your Employer’s Coverage for more ideas.  The point here is not that people don’t understand this stuff – intellectually, they do.  The point is that they often don’t take the time during open enrollment to really review their situation.

While you’re at it, ensure that options such as Dental and Vision coverage make sense for you.  Vision insurance covers a very limited scope of services – usually routine check-ups and part of the cost of glasses or lenses.  Eye injuries or infections, for example, are usually covered by your medical policy.  Ensure your particular Vision or Dental plan actually has the potential to cover its premium cost for your family.  You may be better off simply saving in your Flexible Spending Account (FSA) for those expenses.

Habit #2: Match the level of care with the illness. You’ve probably heard the term “don’t kill a fly with a sledgehammer”, and that saying sums up part of what is wrong with our healthcare system.  Many people seek the wrong level of care for their ailments, and it ends up costing them and the health system money.  When my first child used to have earaches, we would take him to his doctor.  We knew he had an earache, and we knew that he may need either antibiotics or eardrops, but the doctor was the gatekeeper for those meds.  The typical visit cost about $100, and that cost doubled if we went to Urgent Care.

With our second child, we’ve wised up. When she has an earache, we immediately seek out our nearest Physician Assistant-staffed walk-in clinic, such as MinuteClinic.  We still have someone look in her ear, and we still end up with the same antibiotic or eardrop, but the cost is $59.  Anyone who has kids knows that these seemingly small costs add up, and finding the walk-in clinics near you, whether they are operated by a chain, a local health system, or a big box retailer can save alot of dollars over the course of a year.

One tip – make sure these walk-in providers aren’t considered “out-of-network” by your insurer.  While it defies logic, some plans would stick you with an entire $59 walk-in clinic bill while your charge for going to a much more expensive but in-network urgent care would simply be a $10 copay, even though it costs the insurer more.

Habit #3: Read your EOBs. This may seem obvious, but reading the EOB that you receive from your insurance company and comparing it with your medical bill is a habit everyone should have.  There are several points in the medical billing process when a key error can be one, and most of the time the errors do not work to the patient’s favor.  First, the provider may record the wrong insurance plan in the system, dooming the bill from the start.  Second, your clinic or doctor may enter the wrong procedure in their system.  You take your child in for one vaccination, and the procedure is incorrectly recorded as a shot to treat a disease.  It may cost more, and in some cases can turn that charge into one that is “non-covered” by the insurer.  Third, the insurer may interpret the charge incorrectly, and pay the wrong rate or deny the charge altogether, sticking you with the bill.  This could occur because the charge was billed incorrectly or they processed the charge using the wrong plan.  Fourth, mathematical errors happen which should be apparent when you review your EOB.

While there are more than four instances when EOBs can clue you in to a costly error, these are some of the more common ones to watch for.  If you do find an error, begin by calling your insurer.  If that doesn’t get you anywhere, see if your doctor’s office can help.  If you hit a dead end, ask if your employer’s benefits department, the actual buyer of the insurance plan, can step in.

Habit #4: Know the finer points of your FSA. Anyone who reads a personal finance blog is probably well aware of the ability to save for medical expenses with pre-tax dollars.  While most people use their FSA to cover premiums, deductibles, and perhaps copays and medications, there are a few items (some surprising) that many families overlook when considering what they can cover with pre-tax dollars.  Here are a few:

  • Day Camp: As part of dependent care expenses, you may pay for day camp through your FSA if it allows the parent to work
  • “Small” Consumer Health Expenses: Your FSA can cover many items that may end up on your grocery list, including Tylenol, Advil, Tums, Neosporin, Pepto-Bismol, cough syrup, sunscreen, and hand sanitizer
  • Home Improvements: The cost of removing lead paint in order to prevent potential a child from ingesting it can be reimbursed (but not the painting), as can radon gas abatement if directed by a physician
  • Massage, Acupuncture, or a Personal Trainer: If prescribed by a physician for a medical condition, these items may be covered

It is worth mentioning here that FSA dollars have the “use-it-or-lose-it” clause (unlike Health Savings Account dollars).  While you may find there are more expenses than you realized for which your family can use FSA dollars, always be a bit conservative when allocating your yearly FSA amounts.

          Weekly Roundup – Almost Frozen Tomatoes Edition

          Something told me to hold off on potting our tomato plants.  Last year the square foot garden sprouts were nearly wiped out by a late-April freeze.  Since the tomatoes eventually grew to take over more than their allotted square we’ve decided to grow them separately this year in containers.

          Good thing we held off.  Last night it got down to 30 degrees and there was a decent amount of frost covering the yard this morning.  I’m sure we could have covered the plants up with sheets or plastic and they would have survived, but it was nice to see my procrastination finally pay off!

          With the cold weather behind us for good, I’ll be spending some of Easter weekend getting our tomato crop up and running.  Maybe this year I can grow enough to enjoy salads and a jar or two of homemade salsa!

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          Saving Strategy: Bank your Raises/Extra Income.  An excellent reminder with some people receiving mid-year raises soon.  Most of us suffer from what economists refer to as a marginal propensity to consume.  As our disposable income increases, so does our spending.  Don’t fall for the same trap. Hold you spending in place and bank than raise.  (@Million Dollar Journey)

          Can You Pay Federal Taxes with Credit Cards?  The short answer is yes, but as Sun walks you through the various costs associated you begin to wonder who would want to!  I suppose if you were desperate it might offer some reprieve from owing the IRS, but there might be cheaper options.  (@The Sun’s Financial Diary)

          Is Suze Right? Do Emergency Funds Now Trump Debt Repayment?  I rarely agree with Suze on anything related to credit management.  While I agree with the premise of her argument, people should be saving more instead of piling everything onto debt, I also agree with Trent that you can take this too far.  (@The Simple Dollar)

          How to Beat Popular Carnival Games.  Ever unloaded $26 at a carnival game to win a $10 teddy bear?  Who hasn’t?  Read up on some tricks for winning at the most popular carnival games. You might even impress someone in the crowd, or make the carnival game worker angry – either way, you win!  (@Smart Spending)

          The Art of Negotiating – A Crucial Skill For a Frugal Lifestyle.  I’ve never been good at haggling, but after reading these five negotiating rules I now have some ammunition for the next time I need to negotiate.  (@Simple Mom)

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          Site of the Week

          “Go Frugal” at FreeShipping.org.  A little shameless self-promotion included in this week’s selection.  The site Freeshipping.org, home to tons of free shipping offers and coupons from major retailers, has started up a “Go Frugal” blog where a group of contributors from across the frugal landscape will share ways to save money. I’m honored to be one of those writers, and plan to post there on a weekly basis.  Hope you’ll follow!

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          Carnival of Pecuniary Delights. A new favorite in the blogging carnival world!

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          Simplify Your Life in Six Simple Steps

          Here lately I’ve been yearning for a simpler life. This is pretty normal for me.  I tend to put off getting organized or culling stuff from my life until it reaches a boiling point of frustration and then I go into “purge” mode where I start getting rid of stuff.  I’m just about there.

          However, this time I’ll try to take a more methodical approach.  My wife and kids will appreciate this as they have witnessed far too many Saturday afternoon meltdowns when I couldn’t find something in the garage and go on a three-hour cleaning spree.  I’ve started looking for tips to simplify my life, and implementing those a few at a time until things feel more orderly.

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          Photo courtesy of Wolfgang Staudt

          Simple Ways to Simplify Your Life

          Clear a thinking space.  When our space is cluttered, our mind is cluttered.  This step is one that I have put off and sort of tolerated living without until I started trying to organize thoughts on paper.  I’ve lived with a messy office and a messy desk for quite a while, and found organization in my clutter (I usually only lost things after cleaning up).  But I have discovered writing in a cluttered environment jumbles my thoughts.  Remove anything from your space that is distracting. Clear surfaces of clutter.  File papers and documents that no longer require your attention.  Adopt a one-touch system and force yourself to take action, shred, or file something the first time it touches your hands.

          Just say “no.” It’s only two letters, but it is often the most difficult word to say in the English language, especially for “pleasers.”  But saying no gracefully is key to simplifying your life because it allows to focus our energy on those commitments that are most important to us.  If we dilute that energy by committing to ten different opportunities we aren’t doing ourselves, or those we commit to, any favors.

          Simplify your finances.  How many credit cards, savings accounts, brokerage accounts and mutual funds do you own?  Chances are you are like me and have things scattered all over the place.  I’m going to dedicate some time in the near future to consolidating a few accounts so I’ll have less to keep up with. Here are few ways to simplify your finances:

          • Scale back to one credit card and a backup.
          • Unless you have hundreds of thousands of dollars and are worried about FDIC coverage, consider banking at one institution.
          • Consider a target retirement fund rather than a smattering of funds that you have to manage, research and rebalance periodically.
          • Put recurring charges and utilities on automatic deduction and opt for paperless statements.  It’s one less envelope to enter your home and cause distraction.

          Clean out your car.  What’s the last thing you see before you walk into the office each morning?  What’s the first thing you see when you leave the office in the evening?  The inside of your car.  If your interior is littered with three stained coffee mugs, fast food wrappers and receipts, then consider taking some time to spruce things up.  For those who commute, time spent on the road is often when we do some of our best thinking.  It’s also an opportunity to decompress after a long day at the office.

          Create an “I Will Do One Thing Today” list.  Of course you can do more than one thing, but name at least one thing that you’ve been putting off and do it today.  I like to fill this out a day ahead of time (an I will do this tomorrow list, if you will) by declaring a task I’ve been procrastinating on.  The last few days my lists looked like this (I have a similar list at work):

          • Adjust gate hardware
          • Finish taxes
          • Put tomato plants in pot

          Become a “90-percenter.” Are you one of those people who are always in a rush?  I used to be, too.  Then I realized that all that time I spent hurrying around was time I could have spent truly enjoying life.  At my first job I ran around like a maniac, worked a ton of hours, and basically tried to out-hustle everyone there.  I thought I had to because I was one of only a handful of team members who did not have a degree.  The hustle paid off, or so I thought.  I was soon promoted to a position that required even more work and more hours, but did not come with an equal bounce in pay.  I had a toddler at home and one on the way, and it occurred to me that all the hours spent working were hours I was missing watching them grow.  That’s when I became a “90-percenter.”

          I now work hard to accomplish the top 90% of my priorities each day, but refuse to drive myself past exhaustion to get to the remaining 10% – it takes care of itself in time.  I discovered that the remaning 10% wasn’t worth getting an ulcer over, and I could spend that extra quality time with my family.