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		<title>By: Alex</title>
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		<dc:creator>Alex</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 24 Aug 2009 13:45:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>To me just as much egoistic behavior as being a rich doctor living in a big house:</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>To me just as much egoistic behavior as being a rich doctor living in a big house:</p>
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		<title>By: marci</title>
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		<dc:creator>marci</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 28 Jul 2009 01:50:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Have friends in Alaska?  Many of them live off the grid and isolated. Mine are a 2 hr boat trip from anywhere/anyone, with only one summer home anywhere nearby. Most of the time they have the place completely all to themselves.  Have to keep shoveling snow off the boat in winter in case of emergency, or get a plane to fly in and land on the bay. 

They have diesel that the haul on the boat for the generator, run sparingly, and gas, also hauled in by boat, and no electric.  The plane drops a bundle once a month in the winter time.  There are a lot of folks doing the same thing there, and in other places, so it is not as uncommon as one might think. 

Here in NW coastal Oregon, we often times go 3-4 days without electric in the winter, stretching to 8 days without 2 winters ago. Cell phones were out for 10 days, and only local landline calls could be made for 10 days.  With a wood stove, for heat, hot water, and cooking, all I worried about was the freezer.  It was cozy, and the family all gathered at my house cuz they knew Mom (me) would have a great stew going on the woodstove :)     Since then I have been trying to can more and freeze less to prevent a major loss of meat.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Have friends in Alaska?  Many of them live off the grid and isolated. Mine are a 2 hr boat trip from anywhere/anyone, with only one summer home anywhere nearby. Most of the time they have the place completely all to themselves.  Have to keep shoveling snow off the boat in winter in case of emergency, or get a plane to fly in and land on the bay. </p>
<p>They have diesel that the haul on the boat for the generator, run sparingly, and gas, also hauled in by boat, and no electric.  The plane drops a bundle once a month in the winter time.  There are a lot of folks doing the same thing there, and in other places, so it is not as uncommon as one might think. </p>
<p>Here in NW coastal Oregon, we often times go 3-4 days without electric in the winter, stretching to 8 days without 2 winters ago. Cell phones were out for 10 days, and only local landline calls could be made for 10 days.  With a wood stove, for heat, hot water, and cooking, all I worried about was the freezer.  It was cozy, and the family all gathered at my house cuz they knew Mom (me) would have a great stew going on the woodstove <img src='http://frugaldad.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />      Since then I have been trying to can more and freeze less to prevent a major loss of meat.</p>
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		<title>By: Kevin@OutOfYourRut</title>
		<link>http://frugaldad.com/2009/07/24/living-off-the-grid-with-kids/comment-page-1/#comment-29090</link>
		<dc:creator>Kevin@OutOfYourRut</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 28 Jul 2009 01:19:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Penny Copperwire (32)--A couple of years back a Wash DC psychologist who studies such things said pretty much the same things you&#039;re saying.  She said that schools create the perfect little peer groups, segregated based on age, and forceably homogenized to a degree they&#039;ll never see in adult life.  Her argument was that this very arrangement, accepted without question that it is, generates a great deal of the problems seen in schools.

But to get back to the topic at hand, it probably is best for all of us to make some attempt at incorporating some of the principals of &quot;living off the grid&quot; within the context of modern life.  Few of us have the willingness or ability to go back to a pure live-off-the-land existence but there are components that are desireable, such as detaching ourselves from the media and the popculture to a large degree, spending more time with family and friends, perhaps homeschooling our kids and in general emphasizing self-reliance.  We don&#039;t need to live in the wilderness to do any of these things, but maybe we can make some effort to incorporate the best of both worlds into our own.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Penny Copperwire (32)&#8211;A couple of years back a Wash DC psychologist who studies such things said pretty much the same things you&#8217;re saying.  She said that schools create the perfect little peer groups, segregated based on age, and forceably homogenized to a degree they&#8217;ll never see in adult life.  Her argument was that this very arrangement, accepted without question that it is, generates a great deal of the problems seen in schools.</p>
<p>But to get back to the topic at hand, it probably is best for all of us to make some attempt at incorporating some of the principals of &#8220;living off the grid&#8221; within the context of modern life.  Few of us have the willingness or ability to go back to a pure live-off-the-land existence but there are components that are desireable, such as detaching ourselves from the media and the popculture to a large degree, spending more time with family and friends, perhaps homeschooling our kids and in general emphasizing self-reliance.  We don&#8217;t need to live in the wilderness to do any of these things, but maybe we can make some effort to incorporate the best of both worlds into our own.</p>
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		<title>By: Courtney Ostaff</title>
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		<dc:creator>Courtney Ostaff</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 27 Jul 2009 23:55:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@ Squeaky Re: Distance

What I said was that 3 miles &lt;i&gt;then&lt;/i&gt; was about 500 &lt;i&gt;now&lt;/i&gt;.  

I actually didn&#039;t come up with this by myself. 

In a study of distances traveled by populations in various eras, most medieval peasants traveled no further than 3 miles from their homes, on average, in their entire lives. They were walking on foot, laden with provisions for their journey, &lt;i&gt;not&lt;/i&gt; on good roads - most were the equivalent of goat paths.  Modern roads and accompanying infrastructure are more uncommon throughout history than one would think. See also Zvi Razi&#039;s &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0198201907&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Medieval society and the manor court.&lt;/a&gt;

For example, I used to live 1.75 miles (about 2.5k) up a dirt road.  No problem, right? Except that walking home after the bus dropped us off was nearly impossible because there were two hills to go over, and 2 knee-deep creeks to cross, and about a tenth of a mile where you traveled &lt;i&gt;through&lt;/i&gt; the creek bed.  The creeks were commonly used for travel because at least they were relatively flat, and free of vegetation.  You might read &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.amazon.com/Follow-River-JAMES-ALEXANDER-Thom/dp/0345338545&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Follow The River&lt;/a&gt; by James Alexander Thom for more details about this.

Barring major moves or travel, most modern, middle-class Americans will travel no further than 1000 miles in a day (500 miles there and 500 miles back), because that&#039;s the average distance you can travel in a day in a car.  And we are a sedentary, car loving nation.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@ Squeaky Re: Distance</p>
<p>What I said was that 3 miles <i>then</i> was about 500 <i>now</i>.  </p>
<p>I actually didn&#8217;t come up with this by myself. </p>
<p>In a study of distances traveled by populations in various eras, most medieval peasants traveled no further than 3 miles from their homes, on average, in their entire lives. They were walking on foot, laden with provisions for their journey, <i>not</i> on good roads &#8211; most were the equivalent of goat paths.  Modern roads and accompanying infrastructure are more uncommon throughout history than one would think. See also Zvi Razi&#8217;s <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0198201907" rel="nofollow">Medieval society and the manor court.</a></p>
<p>For example, I used to live 1.75 miles (about 2.5k) up a dirt road.  No problem, right? Except that walking home after the bus dropped us off was nearly impossible because there were two hills to go over, and 2 knee-deep creeks to cross, and about a tenth of a mile where you traveled <i>through</i> the creek bed.  The creeks were commonly used for travel because at least they were relatively flat, and free of vegetation.  You might read <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Follow-River-JAMES-ALEXANDER-Thom/dp/0345338545" rel="nofollow">Follow The River</a> by James Alexander Thom for more details about this.</p>
<p>Barring major moves or travel, most modern, middle-class Americans will travel no further than 1000 miles in a day (500 miles there and 500 miles back), because that&#8217;s the average distance you can travel in a day in a car.  And we are a sedentary, car loving nation.</p>
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		<title>By: Penny Copperwyre</title>
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		<dc:creator>Penny Copperwyre</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 27 Jul 2009 21:59:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>As a public school teacher who has taught students who are &quot;socialized&quot; and those who were homescooled, I can unequivocably argue for homeschooling.  How genuine an interaction is the public school system?  All people of the exact same age in the same classes together?  Self-segregation by cliches in the lunchrooms?  Hardly real world &quot;socialization,&quot; unless you of course only hang out with people your exact age group. Is it better to &quot;socialize&quot; them to hypersexualization to the point where the average age of first time sexual encounter is around thirteen years? Teen binge drinking on the rise?  I don&#039;t worry for these off the grid children at all. I worry for the rest of them.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>As a public school teacher who has taught students who are &#8220;socialized&#8221; and those who were homescooled, I can unequivocably argue for homeschooling.  How genuine an interaction is the public school system?  All people of the exact same age in the same classes together?  Self-segregation by cliches in the lunchrooms?  Hardly real world &#8220;socialization,&#8221; unless you of course only hang out with people your exact age group. Is it better to &#8220;socialize&#8221; them to hypersexualization to the point where the average age of first time sexual encounter is around thirteen years? Teen binge drinking on the rise?  I don&#8217;t worry for these off the grid children at all. I worry for the rest of them.</p>
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		<title>By: Squeaky</title>
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		<dc:creator>Squeaky</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 27 Jul 2009 17:01:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@Courtney,

I&#039;m not sure I agree with you on the equivalence of distance in the modern era.  I don&#039;t believe 3 miles is such a big deal in the kind of terrain that covers most of the USA.  It&#039;s a comfortable distance to run for exercise, and it&#039;s shorter than a one-way trip to the grocery store for me, and the route is about half paved and half dirt.  This is not the Rocky Mountains or the Grand Canyon.

I do all my grocery shopping on foot, and I go at least once a week for dairy, kitty litter, and such.  The dirt part is easier on my knees compared to pavement especially if I&#039;m carrying a load.  But I still seldom break a sweat doing it, and I&#039;m one of those out-of-shape overweight people!

Comparing my weekly stroll to the grocery store (which requires an investment of maybe two hours if I dawdle in the store), to a 500 mile car trek, which at an average speed of 75 miles per hour would take 6 hours 40 minutes and require full alertness to avoid a car accident, just doesn&#039;t seem realistic to me.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@Courtney,</p>
<p>I&#8217;m not sure I agree with you on the equivalence of distance in the modern era.  I don&#8217;t believe 3 miles is such a big deal in the kind of terrain that covers most of the USA.  It&#8217;s a comfortable distance to run for exercise, and it&#8217;s shorter than a one-way trip to the grocery store for me, and the route is about half paved and half dirt.  This is not the Rocky Mountains or the Grand Canyon.</p>
<p>I do all my grocery shopping on foot, and I go at least once a week for dairy, kitty litter, and such.  The dirt part is easier on my knees compared to pavement especially if I&#8217;m carrying a load.  But I still seldom break a sweat doing it, and I&#8217;m one of those out-of-shape overweight people!</p>
<p>Comparing my weekly stroll to the grocery store (which requires an investment of maybe two hours if I dawdle in the store), to a 500 mile car trek, which at an average speed of 75 miles per hour would take 6 hours 40 minutes and require full alertness to avoid a car accident, just doesn&#8217;t seem realistic to me.</p>
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		<title>By: IRG</title>
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		<dc:creator>IRG</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 27 Jul 2009 16:20:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>There&#039;s a part of me that admires this family for their gutsy approach. (Living without basics is stressful, if you&#039;ve had them before, and takes a lot of time/energy.)

It&#039;s a comment on our society that you do have to seemingly go to extremes to not &quot;succumb&quot; to consumerism, peer influence, etc. in your daily life. Personally, I think families pay a price for this extreme of &quot;off the grid.&quot; I&#039;d seriously like to see real scientific studies on how it affects their kids ability to socialize, interact, etc. not just anecdotal speculation.

I&#039;ve known plenty of folks who live a very &quot;simple&quot; life and don&#039;t watch tv, limit their kids &quot;indoor&quot; computer/video game time and do not let their kids dictate expensive purchases (But mom, we HAVE to have...fill in the blank, be it designer sneakers or expensive toys.) They also don&#039;t allow their kids to join every sport, engage in every activity. It&#039;s very selective. Family time (Which is NOT the time spent in cars, shutteling kids around to one activity or another) is a priority. This works well for some, not so well for others.

As their kids grow and socialize more and more, it is tougher and tougher because the kids see the difference in how they are living versus their friends. This often causes a lot of friction because kids for the most part want to be like their friends. And kids today are ruthless in judging others who do not act, think like them. it&#039;s not easy being your own person as a teenager.

Even the most firmly convinced of their ideals parents have huge difficulties with teenagers who can&#039;t enjoy, even to a limited extent, the lifestyles of their friends, and this applies to all socio-economic levels, not just the rich or well off.

Simplicity is a concept you learn, some earlier, some later, some not at all. When it&#039;s imposed on you, it can be really problematic (as in when one partner wants it and one does not...)

I think it does take a village to connect and integrate humans into the world around them.  Yea, the whole socializing and socialization bit can get out of hand and cause some grief, but in the world, you really need to understand how people &quot;work&quot; and act with each other. Otherwise, you are at a disadvantage in how you interact with others. 

I also think living off the grid is probably far more difficult if there is only one child versus a few, who can play and learn from each other.

But, good or bad, parents have to do what they believe is right. I just hope they make thoughtful choices that take into account the downsides, as those are also a part of the decision for an &quot;alternate&quot; lifestyle.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>There&#8217;s a part of me that admires this family for their gutsy approach. (Living without basics is stressful, if you&#8217;ve had them before, and takes a lot of time/energy.)</p>
<p>It&#8217;s a comment on our society that you do have to seemingly go to extremes to not &#8220;succumb&#8221; to consumerism, peer influence, etc. in your daily life. Personally, I think families pay a price for this extreme of &#8220;off the grid.&#8221; I&#8217;d seriously like to see real scientific studies on how it affects their kids ability to socialize, interact, etc. not just anecdotal speculation.</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve known plenty of folks who live a very &#8220;simple&#8221; life and don&#8217;t watch tv, limit their kids &#8220;indoor&#8221; computer/<a href="http://frugaldad.com/recommends/gamefly" style="" target="_blank" rel="nofollow" onmouseover="self.status='http://frugaldad.com/recommends/gamefly';return true;" onmouseout="self.status=''">video game</a> time and do not let their kids dictate expensive purchases (But mom, we HAVE to have&#8230;fill in the blank, be it designer sneakers or expensive toys.) They also don&#8217;t allow their kids to join every sport, engage in every activity. It&#8217;s very selective. Family time (Which is NOT the time spent in cars, shutteling kids around to one activity or another) is a priority. This works well for some, not so well for others.</p>
<p>As their kids grow and socialize more and more, it is tougher and tougher because the kids see the difference in how they are living versus their friends. This often causes a lot of friction because kids for the most part want to be like their friends. And kids today are ruthless in judging others who do not act, think like them. it&#8217;s not easy being your own person as a teenager.</p>
<p>Even the most firmly convinced of their ideals parents have huge difficulties with teenagers who can&#8217;t enjoy, even to a limited extent, the lifestyles of their friends, and this applies to all socio-economic levels, not just the rich or well off.</p>
<p>Simplicity is a concept you learn, some earlier, some later, some not at all. When it&#8217;s imposed on you, it can be really problematic (as in when one partner wants it and one does not&#8230;)</p>
<p>I think it does take a village to connect and integrate humans into the world around them.  Yea, the whole socializing and socialization bit can get out of hand and cause some grief, but in the world, you really need to understand how people &#8220;work&#8221; and act with each other. Otherwise, you are at a disadvantage in how you interact with others. </p>
<p>I also think living off the grid is probably far more difficult if there is only one child versus a few, who can play and learn from each other.</p>
<p>But, good or bad, parents have to do what they believe is right. I just hope they make thoughtful choices that take into account the downsides, as those are also a part of the decision for an &#8220;alternate&#8221; lifestyle.</p>
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		<title>By: Courtney Ostaff</title>
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		<dc:creator>Courtney Ostaff</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 27 Jul 2009 15:39:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I second Kevin.  

Squeaky, the reason that Laura Ingalls Wilder is so remarkable &lt;i&gt;is&lt;/i&gt; her literacy.  Illiteracy rates before the turn of the 20th century were fairly high.  Yes, families were large, but they were also combined into close multigenerational multifamily units, much like the Amish today.

Remember, distances were different in those days - 3 miles (the typical there-and-back-in-a-day walking distance) is equivalent to about 500 miles today, because that&#039;s the typical day&#039;s drive in an automobile.

Socialization requirements were different as well.  Introverts were much more valued--the &quot;strong, silent type&quot; -- as opposed to the  current emphasis on &quot;social skills&quot; and extroversion.  Ironically enough, the ability to keep your mouth shut is highly valued when you work long-term in small groups, as opposed to today&#039;s fragmented society.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I second Kevin.  </p>
<p>Squeaky, the reason that Laura Ingalls Wilder is so remarkable <i>is</i> her literacy.  Illiteracy rates before the turn of the 20th century were fairly high.  Yes, families were large, but they were also combined into close multigenerational multifamily units, much like the Amish today.</p>
<p>Remember, distances were different in those days &#8211; 3 miles (the typical there-and-back-in-a-day walking distance) is equivalent to about 500 miles today, because that&#8217;s the typical day&#8217;s drive in an automobile.</p>
<p>Socialization requirements were different as well.  Introverts were much more valued&#8211;the &#8220;strong, silent type&#8221; &#8212; as opposed to the  current emphasis on &#8220;social skills&#8221; and extroversion.  Ironically enough, the ability to keep your mouth shut is highly valued when you work long-term in small groups, as opposed to today&#8217;s fragmented society.</p>
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		<title>By: Kevin@OutOfYourRut</title>
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		<dc:creator>Kevin@OutOfYourRut</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 27 Jul 2009 15:16:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>It isn&#039;t likely that many early settlers truly did it alone.  For most of human existence it was conventional wisdom that living alone lowered the chances of survival.  We have a natural orientiontion toward pack/herd/community behavior.  I suspect that much of the go-it-alone attitude is an over romanticized notion peculiar to the modern era where people desperately want to escape hyper-civilization and urbanism.  

In the pioneer/westward expansion days, not only did families not live alone, but they didn&#039;t travel alone either.  They may have had their own piece of ground, but it wouldn&#039;t have been terribly far from other families or from a local community.  Yes there may have been well documented cases of families truly living alone, but that probably was the exception, not the rule.  Few people prior to 1900 would have chosen isolation unless there was absolutely no choice, ie a fugative from the law.  

We seem to have that luxury of even imagining such an existence today, though as accustomed as we are to modern conveniences, it probably would be quite a bit harder for us, not the least of which because we&#039;re so far removed from basic survival skills.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It isn&#8217;t likely that many early settlers truly did it alone.  For most of human existence it was conventional wisdom that living alone lowered the chances of survival.  We have a natural orientiontion toward pack/herd/community behavior.  I suspect that much of the go-it-alone attitude is an over romanticized notion peculiar to the modern era where people desperately want to escape hyper-civilization and urbanism.  </p>
<p>In the pioneer/westward expansion days, not only did families not live alone, but they didn&#8217;t travel alone either.  They may have had their own piece of ground, but it wouldn&#8217;t have been terribly far from other families or from a local community.  Yes there may have been well documented cases of families truly living alone, but that probably was the exception, not the rule.  Few people prior to 1900 would have chosen isolation unless there was absolutely no choice, ie a fugative from the law.  </p>
<p>We seem to have that luxury of even imagining such an existence today, though as accustomed as we are to modern conveniences, it probably would be quite a bit harder for us, not the least of which because we&#8217;re so far removed from basic survival skills.</p>
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