Radical Thoughts About Our Culture of Debt

This guest post is by Roshawn Watson who writes at Watson Inc on eliminating debt, investing money, and building wealth. Get his free eBook Your Foundation to Wealth by signing up for his email updates (no spam I promise). Get his RSS feed and connect with him on Twitter @roshawnwatson too.

Debt is one of the most aggressively marketed products in the world. It has permeated nearly every aspect of our lives. Even many churches are willing to accept offerings via credit cards, and Monopoly TM accepts credit card branding in their games.

The primary consequence is that debt is so ingrained into our culture that it hard for many to even conceive of purchasing a car or going to school without a loan. Unfortunately, consumer debts (i.e. student loans, credit cards, and car loans) such as these are exactly the worse kinds of debt to get into. These debts are designed to ensnare consumers into lifetimes of leveraged consumption.

Working for the Banks

If you are indebted to someone, with every payment you are increasing your lender’s wealth. Your debt is his or her asset. The longer you are paying it, the greater his or her return on investment. However, are you getting richer? Sadly, in many cases, the answer is no.

Let’s just look at the average American. The average credit card balance in America is nearly $10,700 ($200 monthly) with an interest rate in the mid to high teens. The typical car note is nearly $500 monthly. A standard student loan payment is about $250 per month. Of course, the list goes on.

Excluding the costs of necessities, such as food, shelter, transportation, and utilities, many Americans are already committed to paying at least $950 a month! It’s no wonder so many people feel trapped, they are literally working for the banks.

Imagine if these payments were converted into investments. If you received a very conservative return (7%), $950 could grow into a very respectable $2.5 million over a typical working life. However, instead of putting that $950 towards your financial freedom, it goes towards funding someone else’s financial independence. The price of debt is simply too great.

Debt equals bondage.

Pain of Paying Cash

Additionally, numerous studies have now repeated demonstrated that consumers who regularly use plastic for their purchases spend between 12-50% more (depending on the venue) than their cash-paying counterparts.

This phenomenon is known as the pain of paying cash. It is believed that direct loss of money causes our subconscious minds pain, so in an attempt to minimize the damage, we spend less. Thus, knowing that the money is coming out of our accounts serves as a motivator for us to spend less. By purchasing items on credit, there is a disconnect between purchasing and paying. With the financial pain is delayed to the end of the month, such as when one receives his or her monthly credit card statement, there is less motivation to curtail spending.

Also, by paying cash, you can get some phenomenal deals. I typically use this technique when purchasing cars. For example, I was able to negotiate the cost of my first car down 40% by telling the dealer that I was paying with cash. GM didn’t care that I was still a teenager or was at the dealership alone. All they cared about was that I had access to those greenbacks right then and was willing to take their gently used car off of their new car lot. I have used this strategy multiple times now. By having cash on hand, many buyers can gain the upper hand during negotiations and motivate sellers to accept their terms, provided that the terms are reasonable.

More than Just Money

In actuality, my criticism of debt goes well beyond money. At the root, it is really more about how we have been conditioned to think that the only way to solve our problems is through debt. In essence, the FICO score becomes our provider. It’s form of deification. Debt becomes our god! Financial guru Dave Ramsey says it this way: Do you worship at the altar of the great FICO? Before you answer that, consider this: if the only way you can see yourself living a comfortable life involves using consumer debt, then it is likely that you will always be in bondage to the banks. If you think you can or think you cannot, you are right in both cases.

Along the same line of thought, by keeping debt as an option to solve our problems, we often remove our ambition to solve them through other alternatives. For example, Henry Ford once commented that debt is the lazy man’s method to purchase items. Don’t diminish your ingenuity by settling for the “easy” way out.

Trust me when I say that when someone offers you credit, he or she is not giving you a gift.

Cash Back Bonuses

Nonetheless, some people are completely comfortable with using debt. Some people may even believe that they are getting over on Discover. For example, a common argument is I only use my credit cards for the cash back bonuses. I pay it off every month. The problem here is that that you are paying more for your items typically (see pain of paying cash). In the event of a job loss or sickness, do you have enough cushion via an emergency fund and non-retirement investments to weather an economic storm? Unfortunately, for many people the answer is no. The $50-$400 cash back bonuses aren’t enough to continue playing with snakes in my book, but that’s a personal decision.

The Big Myth About Credit

Lastly, people often say that their reliance on credit is to maintain or improve their standard of living. Ironically, they don’t realize that using credit decreases their standard of living. Let’s say you make $50,000 a year. This means your net (take home) pay is approximately $3125 per month (assuming 25% tax bracket).

Now if you are debt-free excluding your home, that means you likely have enough room in your budget to fund retirement and education funds, pay for reasonable housing, have fun, and give. However, if $950 of that $3125 is already committed to your creditors, the same income that had some flexibility (for someone who is debt-free) can become too rigid to gain much financial traction.

Thus, the person in debt has a decreased standard of living compared to someone who makes exactly the same income but has no debt. Additionally, the debt-free individual doesn’t have to deal with the stress of being in debt and has likely limited his or her monthly financial obligations.

In aggregate, debt makes arrogant assumptions about the future. It obligates tomorrow’s income today. Don’t mortgage your life and your family’s destiny for a new Toyota Camry. No car, dress, or Ivy League education is worth your financial freedom. After all, nothing is more precious than freedom.

Be Frugal by Shopping Online, Using Coupons, and Getting Cash Back!

Today’s guest post is from Kyle Robinson, the marketing director at CouponCactus.com, an online coupon and cash back site. They offer coupons and cash back for over 3,000 stores, with free membership. Even if you don’t shop online much, it’s worth checking them out and maybe doing it more often!

With the holidays coming up, there is no doubt that many of you FrugalDad readers are already thinking about what you are going to get for your friends and family members, and more importantly, how you are going to get those gifts as affordably as possible.

When you have an idea of what you want to buy – either a specific product or even a general category – shopping online can be not only fun, but it is often the shopping method that leads you to the best deal. We at CouponCactus.com want to provide you with some tips that will help you do just that.

1. Always check online and ALWAYS check for Coupons

Many frugal shoppers clip coupons from the paper and take them to the grocery store, but there are still many who are unaware that they can use coupons (also called coupon codes or promo codes) online! Making a habit of checking prices online and checking for coupon codes each and every time you shop will shave serious money off of your budget.

If you use Mint.com or a similar budget/finance tool, try keeping track of your online purchases and start adding up how much you’ve saved over time – you’ll be surprised!

2. If you know generally what you want to buy, but not from what store – Let Coupons and Cash Back Guide You

Price comparison sites like Pricegrabber and BizRate are great for checking prices at different merchants for a specific product, but they don’t include discounts from coupons. Plus, if you only generally know that you want to buy some shoes, or a laptop, then start with our category pages on CouponCactus.com, which will allow you to “drill down” to a specific category and view all of the best coupons for stores in that category.

By allowing the coupons and discounts to be your guide, you can browse merchant pages for exactly the product you will eventually buy, all the while knowing you’re going to get a great deal!

3. Take advantage of free shipping whenever possible

Many online merchants offer free shipping by default when you place an order over a certain amount. You can often find “coupons” that will give you free shipping on those orders as well, but check the merchant’s site to see if they offer it without one so you can use a better coupon or combine the free shipping with the coupon. Eliminating shipping charges makes online shopping an even clearer winner over in-store shopping.

4. Check to see if the merchant offers a discount when you sign up for their newsletter

Many stores will give you an extra discount off your first order when you sign up for their promotional newsletter. It’s easy enough to forward those emails to a special folder or unsubscribe later if you don’t find value in them, but it’s certainly worth signing up if they are offering 10% off!

5. If you’re not getting cash back, you’re missing out

It’s easy to see a coupon on a coupon site or in an email (sometimes directly from a merchant) and click through to use it without thinking about how much cash back you’re throwing away by doing so.

Even if the cash back for a specific store is only 2-3%, it’s certainly worth the extra 15 seconds to come to our site, sign in, and click the coupon to save that much more.

We allow you to easily see the cash back you’ve earned on each of your purchases, and what you’ve earned on purchases from friends and family members you’ve referred. Over time those numbers add up, and you’ll get a nice check or Paypal payment each quarter.

Setting Up a Financial System as a Couple

The following guest post is from Elle, who writes for Couple Money – a personal finance blog about building financial freedom together.

Each family has to deal with finances their own way, but there seems to be some common threads among all of us.   A successful marriage isn’t easy and it often involves learning to adjust to circumstances, including financial ones, as they come. With many people having their pay cut or losing their jobs all together, money has become a sensitive subject for some families.

One thing that may surprise people is how our finances have helped us draw closer together. While other factors like our faith, friends, and values have been major assets to us, our financial system has been a positive force in our marriage. Like many couples, we had to create it from scratch and learn what worked for us and what didn’t.

Focus on Goals Together

We learned from family and friends that open and honest communication is essential to reaching family goals, whether it’s money or otherwise. Being on the same page with our goals and values has made all the difference for us.

We have made a point to have financial meetings to discuss budgets, goals, and ideas. We did this more frequently the first year we were married as we had to figure out a system that was going to work for both of us. This is important because many times couples will have different ways of getting there.

Living on One Income

The first major decision we made as a couple was to plan to live on one income. It first started out of necessity, but once we got accustomed to it, we kept it. Besides going to school full-time, I had an internship that had a long commute. We weren’t sure if I should or could keep the job since we moved into an apartment way in a different city to be closer to my school.

We decided to keep all our living expenses based on my husband’s pay, which wasn’t much at the time with him being a new college graduate. Since I was still in school and working part time, we decided to do proportional budgeting for our joint accounts.

Our Budgeting System

Here’s an example of how it worked for us. (I’m using some hypothetical numbers to keep the math simple.)

Family Income

  • Person 1’s Monthly Net Income: $2100/month
  • Person 2 Monthly Net Income: $1400/month
  • Total Income:  $3500

Family Expenses

  • Bills: $2800/month
  • Person 1 brings in 60% of the income.
  • Person 2 brings in 40% of the income.
  • So here are the deposits:

Family Deposits

  • Person 1 deposits $1080. That’s just multiplying the bills by 60%
  • Person 2 deposits $720.

We feel like proportional deposits are a more fair way to handle the bills for us personally, but we understand that everyone has to build their own budgeting system. It’s fair for us because the bills don’t become a burden on one person.

We’ve automated much of our bill payments, savings, debt snowball, and retirement contributions. We’ve found that automating our budget keeps us on target.

Having visual reminders has been a big plus for us.  To help us focus on our monthly budget, we’ve used Google Docs and have shared a spreadsheet. This allows us to have an idea of what the plan is for cash flow. To keep track of actual spending habits, we use Mint for the weekly updates.

Postponed Big Purchases and Expenses

Our first apartment certainly wasn’t fancy, but it was by the beach, near the highway, and was well within our self-imposed budget.
Some friends thought we should’ve upgraded to a bigger apartment, but we didn’t want to live on a tight budget. Having an affordable apartment allowed us to tuck away some money and still have a bit to go out with friends for dinner and drinks.

It also provided a great lesson and reinforcement of this economic truth: we don’t have unlimited resources, so we should use what we have wisely.

Where did our little stash of leftover money go during the first few years?

  • Emergency Fund – Big priority for us as we wanted to have a financial cushion.
  • Paying Down the Car Loan – We sent in extra payments each month and even used our tax refund to get this eliminated.
  • Spending Money for Eating Out – We wanted to still have fun, so we included this in our budget.

We’re weren’t immune to wanting to make some big purchases. Postponing purchases usually meant analyzing the situation. For example, my husband really wanted a big flat screen TV.

There were two problems with that though:

  1. The money could be better spent on bigger goals, such as an emergency fund, debt reduction for our car loan, or house down payment.
  2. Having a really small apartment would make the TV look ridiculous.

Realizing that, we were able to meet our financial goals.  We did eventually get a new flat screen TV, so it worked out for my husband. He was glad because he was able to find a great deal at Costco and made the purchase with our debit card. No payments, just enjoying his TV free and clear.

Bought Cars (with Cash)

When we married, we both had cars. My husband owned his vehicle outright and I was making car payments. Even though my monthly payments were fairly low, I could see how they were negatively affecting out budget.

We decided to pay off the car loan early and hold off on getting another car loan. So far we have purchased 2 cars with cash.

  • Acura Integra – My brother had a friend of a friend who needed to sell his car. The guy had started doing upgrades to it, but he didn’t have the money. We bought the car for less than $2,500 and until our car accident, it ran fine. It had great gas mileage and relatively few mechanical problems.
  • Toyota Celica – We again put the word out and people gave us suggestions of cars to check out. One car had been for sale for a couple of months. It was in good condition and the owners had taken tremendous care of it. Their children had left the house, so they were downsizing the car collection. So far, it’s been running fine.

It does take much more legwork to hunt for a used car, but we believe it’s been worth it. Both car are at least 10 years old, but they have ran as good as newer cars. Ironically my newer car with the payments has been in the shop more times!

Once we paid off my car loan, we reallocated that money for various new goals, including a car replacement fund.

Do I sometimes want a nice, new car? Yes, it is tempting, but having a large car payment for a few years is not an appealing option for mw. When we go on road trip vacations, we rent a car and that has helped us curb our car appetite.

I completely understand that buying cars with cash isn’t an option for some people. You alone know the state of your family’s finances. I’m just suggesting that you consider holding off having car payments at least until you have a little cushion in your monthly cash flow. My husband suggests trying to buy cars outright unless you have excess money to burn.

Worth the Work?

We have found living a frugal lifestyle to be fun and enjoyable. We eat out with friends, go on vacations, and once in a blue moon, just blow money on things we love.  Our next debt to take down is some student loans. Once that’s done, we’ll try to increase our mortgage payments to pay our house off early.

Getting adjusted to living on income takes time, but it’s worth it. It’s been a wonderful few years together and we hope to have many more.

Thoughts on Couples and Money

How do you organize your finances as a family? What has been your family success story (big or small)?

10 Unknown Uses for Vinegar

The following guest post is from Bob, who writes for ChristianPF.com – a personal finance blog with a Christian focus.

Thanks to the acidity in vinegar, it has more uses than you might imagine. For years frugal folks have found numerous ways to save money using it. From health benefits to use as an environmentally-friendly cleaning product, vinegar is a versatile substance that every household should have on-hand.

Here’s a look at ten uses for vinegar that you’ve probably never thought of before.

1. Control Your Cholesterol

In May 2006, a study by Japanese researchers published in The British Journal of Nutrition showed that lab rats fed with acetic acid, which is the primary ingredient in vinegar, had much lower harmful cholesterol than the control group. Additionally, the rats eating the acetic acid also had lower blood pressure and other health benefits. Although the same study hasn’t been performed yet with humans, the results seem to indicate that regular intake of vinegar, whether in salad dressings or other means, is a great natural way to lower cholesterol and other risk factors in heart disease.

2. Control Your Diabetes

It’s not just people at risk for heart disease who benefit from a little vinegar in their diet; several studies in the 1990s and 2000s have shown that a few tablespoons of vinegar added to a meal can reduce the glycemic index of carbohydrate food. By reducing the glycemic index, people with diabetes can reduce the amount of medicine they need to control the disease. Experiment for yourself by adding a little vinegar to your salad or to season other food you normally eat.

3. Get Windows and Coffee Pots Squeaky Clean

Vinegar is a great cleaning agent on glass. From fingerprints on your windows and picture frames, to mineral deposits in your fish tank and your coffee pot, use vinegar to remove stains and mineral deposits. Diluting vinegar with a little bit of water will prevent a strong vinegar smell and keep the vinegar from damaging the surface.

4. Frost-free Car Windows

Speaking of vinegar on glass, if you’re expecting a hard frost, coat your car’s windows with vinegar the night before. Use three parts vinegar to one part water, and the frost will stay off your car.

5. Deter Cats and Ants

Neither your cat nor your local ant population is overly fond of vinegar, so spray it wherever you don’t want these creatures to be. For cats, a little vinegar spray on your sofa or bed will keep them off; for ants, spraying vinegar across a window sill or doorjamb will keep them from crossing.

6. Reduce the Risk of Infection

Since the time of Hippocrates in the fourth century BC, vinegar has been used internally and externally to fight infection. However, the Greeks only got it half right on this account: vinegar works as a disinfectant in bathroom and kitchen surfaces, but the idea that it can be used internally to fight off warts or lice turns out to be nothing more than an old wives’ tale.

7. Grow Pretty Flowers

Some flowers, such as azaleas, appreciate a little extra acid in the soil. Mix about two tablespoons of vinegar in with a quart of water when you water your azaleas, then watch them flourish.

Weeds, on the other hand, can be killed with vinegar. For someone interested in organic gardening, use pure, undiluted vinegar on weeds instead of a chemical herbicide. It’s better for the environment, not to mention cheaper.

8. Keep Rabbits Out of Your Garden

It’s no good growing beautiful, acid-loving flowers if the rabbits come in and chew everything to pieces. Soak cotton balls in vinegar, then put them into 35 mm film container. Use an awl or ice pick to punch a hole in the top of the container, then place in your garden. You might need to make a few of these rabbit repellents, depending upon the size of your garden.

9. Wash Vegetables

With the rabbits out of your vegetable patch, you’ll have a bumper crop of tomatoes, cucumbers, beans, squash, and other veggies. It’s easy to wash fresh vegetables, whether they come out of your garden or out of the grocery store, with a light vinegar spray. Mix just one tablespoon of vinegar in with a quart and a half of water and put it into a spray bottle.

10. Clean Stains with Vinegar

Bleach is a harsh, poisonous chemical; why not use vinegar to help with the laundry instead? Vinegar is useful in removing red spaghetti, mustard, barbecue, and ketchup stains, perspiration stains, smoky smells, and making dingy whites bright again.

These ten uses for vinegar are really just the tip of the iceberg. A versatile substance in your garden, your kitchen, and your medicine cabinet, vinegar is a cheap and effective way to get a wide variety of jobs done.

What do you use vinegar for around the house?

Couples and Money: Should Each Partner Have a Little “My” Money?

Ever heard that expression, “what’s mine is mine and what’s yours is mine?” When it comes to couples and money there is often some truth to that statement. Often, one partner is a spender, the other a saver. One partner takes the lead as the money manager, and the other couldn’t care less about managing money.

Couples Have to Respect Each Partner’s Money Boundaries

So how do partners that do manage their money well, and actually enjoy creating budgets and watching the household dollars, get the other partner on board with their financial plan? Often, it is by allocating a small sum of “my” money with which the partner is free to spend whatever their heart desires, with the understanding when it’s gone, it’s gone, until the next paycheck.

This is actually a pretty good idea for both partners. When my wife and I were still our snowball debt reduction plan, we often set aside an amount of money, maybe $50 or so, that each of us could spend from a paycheck without answering questions, justifying the purchase, or planning for it in advance.

The only rule was that the money could not be spent on household bills – groceries, utilities, debt repayment, etc. (unless of course we were in bad shape that particular month and just had to spend it on the household). The money was to be spent on something each of us enjoyed.

We often pooled our money to buy something for the house, or to enjoy the occasional dinner and a movie. Other times my wife bought a couple new books, and I would spend mine on some frugal camping gear, or maybe a new tool I had been eying.

We both enjoyed having a little “my” money, and as our finances have improved, we have increased the amounts a bit, too. Of course, we are quite content and often struggle to find ways to spend the money.

We did recently relax the rules a bit (we did set the rules, after all), and can now opt to add our money to savings (or to my personal favorite, the pay off the mortgage early monthly payment) if there is nothing we are interested in buying.

A Word About Stay Home Spouses

The plan outlined above works particularly well for stay home spouses with no income of their own. My wife has been home with our kids for over ten years, and for most of that time we were living on one income.

My wife and I make joint decisions on just about everything we buy, but one day my wife explained that she would like more freedom to buy things without prior discussion. I was actually relieved because I shared the same feelings.

For example, my wife felt silly asking to spend $50 around my birthday to pick me up a present, and a little something from the kids. I reassured her that I didn’t think of my income as my income, rather it was our income. But I could understand how it made her feel.

When we started setting aside an amount of “my” money every paycheck, it made gift-giving much easier because we could both simply save and spend a bit of our own “fun money” on each other.

Even though I brought up our scenario of one spouse staying home, I see other examples where couples and money don’t mix well. Often times both partners are spendthrifts, and rather than facing their financial problems, they both stick their heads in the sand and ignore them until they are forced to pay attention.

Other couples I’ve been around in the past are both so tight with their spending that they seem to challenge each other to see who can spend the least amount of money, and make each other miserable in the process.

Face it; we are going to occasionally give in and buy something we want. After all, life is to be enjoyed. The key is to find a balance that works for you and your partner. Enjoying success as a couple is often about compromise. And allowing each other the freedom to spend a bit of money each month on things they enjoy is a worthy compromise in your family financial plan.

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