Can I Afford It?

Buy and Sell car 10 by FunkyFreaks Classifieds on FlickrWith holiday shopping in full swing, I suspect over the next few days and weeks many people will be standing in store checkout lines asking themselves, “Can I Afford It?”

The “It” could be a Christmast gift, a new car, or a gift for themselves. Regardless, there will be a lot of mental number-crunching going on.

Some Thoughts on Affordability

Over the years I have come to loathe the very question of affordability. 99 times out of 100, if you have to stop and ask if you can afford something, you probably cannot afford it. Why do I say that?

Because affordability has been so mangled by marketers and creative financing that few actually stop to do a logical calculation.

Think about it…if I asked you if you could afford a new $40,000 car, what would your response be? What if I asked if you could “afford” a $500 monthly car payment. Chances are more would respond in the affirmative to the second question.

The new car deal offered is really the same. What you don’t consider is that by taking on the 84-month payment plan, the car will really cost you $43,000 when you add interest payments (even at today’s low financing rates).

People have been conditioned to think in monthly terms. Subscription fees, membership dues, car payments, and a host of other expenses are presented in monthly terms.

If you have a gym membership and they sent a letter reminding you it was time to renew with a bill for $359.40 you would probably call to cancel. But what about $29.95 per month? Sounds more palatable, doesn’t it?

One of the best exercises I can recommend to help gain control of your spending is to convert monthly expenses to a yearly cost. It will immediately help you gain perspective that a monthly bill just doesn’t provide.

Here are a few examples from my own household pre-financial turnaround. You can guess the things I immediately cut to help jump-start our get-out-of-debt plan.

  • Gym membership. $29.95 per month. $359.40 annual cost.
  • Lawn treatments. $42.50 per month. $510.00 annual cost.
  • Expanded cable package. $80.00 per month. $960.00 annual cost.

Rather than guessing, I’ll just tell you that we cut all three of these items, and in the process saved over $1,800 that year – which just happened to be the lowest balance on one of our credit cards. In theory, we eliminated that debt simply by eliminating those three expenses, and our lifestyle didn’t really change that much.

Signing Up for Lifestyle Servitude

In addition to considering financial costs when questioning affordability, there should be other considerations when evaluating large purchases.

The fantastic book by MJ DeMarco, The Millionaire Fastlane, refers to a phenomenon called Lifestyle Servitude, whereby we erase more and more of our freedom by creating lifestyle debt.

Here’s how DeMarco describe the vicious cycle of Lifestyle Servitude:

1. Work creates income.
2. Income creates lifestyle/debt (cars, boats, designer clothes).
3. Lifestyle/debt forces work.
4. Repeat…

Sound familiar? How many of you have traded freedom for affordability? Yeah, me too. But part of maturing, financially, is being able to recognize that giving up our freedom for affordable payments is not a game worth playing, long term.

I don’t often wish for financial mulligans (except for the opportunity to go back and save half my income), because I am who I am largely due to how I’ve managed (or mismanaged) my finances in the past. The best lessons are often learned the way. However, if I had it to do over again, I’d love to start with a clean slate – no income, no payments, no debt.

As my income increased, I would not burden it by adding payments for things I really could not afford. I would save, pay cash, and continue to enjoy the freedom to move from place to place, or job to job, without worry over continuing to make payments for my stuff.

I would carry this philosophy into car and home purchases, and any other large expense in my household. If I couldn’t afford to pay cash for a new home, I would rent. If I couldn’t afford a new car, I’d buy a cheap, used one.

If I could not easily afford to cover a year of expenses, I wouldn’t add any new ones (cable, XM radio, gym memberships, etc.). How much different would life be had we taken that path when just starting out?

Sounds radical doesn’t it? Not quite normal. But what is normal? I’ll leave you with yet another great quote from The Millionaire Fastlane:

“Normal is waking up at 6am, fighting traffic, and working eight hours. Normal is to slave at a job Monday through Friday, save 10%, and repeat for 50 years. Normal is to buy everything on credit. Normal is to believe the illusion that the stock market will make you rich. Normal is to believe that a faster car and a bigger house will make you happy.”

Well, when you put it that way, I’m quite happy not being normal.

Should I Withdraw from My Roth IRA to Pay Off Debt?

Golden Egg by Mykl Roventine on FlickrAmber writes in with the following question regarding Roth IRA withdrawals:

“I currently owe about $10,000 in credit card debt and have nearly that amount in a Roth IRA I started a few years ago. I share your passion for being debt free and have considered withdrawing the money from my IRA account to pay off my debt. I figure once I’m debt free I can resume Roth IRA contributions and rebuild my account. Your thoughts on this strategy?”

Thanks for writing Amber. I appreciate your desire to become debt free – there is no feeling like it! However, withdrawing money from your Roth IRA to pay down debt could potentially be a bad move. Let’s discuss why.

Four Reasons Not to Tap Your Roth IRA to Pay Down Debts

You might have to pay a penalty if you withdraw from a Roth IRA. Although you can withdraw your contributions to a Roth IRA at any time and for any reason, you will be penalized if you withdraw earnings on your Roth IRA contributions unless the distribution of earnings is qualified.

A distribution is only qualified if you withdraw on or after the date you reach the age of 59 ½; if the withdrawal is made because you become disabled according to the IRS; if the withdrawal is used toward the purchase of a first home; or if the withdrawal left to your beneficiary in your will. The withdrawal of earnings must also be made five tax years or more after your first contribution.

Clearly, most withdrawals of earnings to pay off debt are not qualified. A distribution that is not qualified will be subject to a ten percent additional tax penalty, and you must pay ordinary income taxes on the amount you withdraw. There are no taxes owed on qualified distributions from a Roth IRA.

You diminish the power of compounding interest if you withdraw from a Roth IRA. Even if your distribution is qualified, you will have a smaller balance after you withdraw. This makes for a lower amount of money that can be earning interest, diminishing your returns over time. Once you withdraw contributions from previous tax years, they cannot be reinvested. That opportunity to contribute for that period is gone, forever.

You might be unprepared for retirement if you withdraw from a Roth IRA. A Roth IRA is designed to help you pay for your living expenses when you can no longer work. Withdrawing money from it today may leave you with less money decades from now, increasing the odds of an impoverished retirement.

You may start a bad financial pattern if you withdraw from a Roth IRA. It will likely be easier to withdraw from your Roth IRA again in the future when you need some quick cash after you take your first early distribution. Withdrawing once may start a bad pattern that will keep you from hitting your retirement goals if you make a habit of tapping retirement contributions to pay for your current lifestyle.

All things being equal, it seems best to avoid withdrawing from a Roth IRA to pay off your credit cards and other consumer debts. If you have no other recourse, and your debt is inhibiting your ability to live today and plan for the future, then you might want to take a withdrawal.

If you decide to go this route, I strongly suggest you only remove contributions from your Roth IRA, not the earnings. Allow the earnings to continue to grow, and avoid paying taxes and penalties for withdrawing them early for a non-qualifying event.

Fathoming Amazon: 9 Things to Know (Infographic)

I’ve actually been thinking a lot about Amazon this year.  The story of its growth in the last 17 years can only be compared to the thunderous rise of Walmart.  And in some ways, the curve is steeper: the million-title-bookseller turned world’s-largest-retailer hit the $50 billion sales mark in half the time it took Walmart.  As far as online sales go, Amazon has laid waste to a list of successively higher-caliber competitors.  Playing full-court with Barnes & Noble to Walmart all the way to Apple, Amazon just keeps outgrowing its labels: bookseller, e-tailer and now tech company?

Check out the infographic that’s helping everyone at Frugaldad understand the heights to which this furious ambition has led.

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And, like last year, Amazon lures millions of shoppers with respite from holiday stampedes and looted shelves.  They will officially match the Black Friday doorbuster prices of every major retailer.  And unlike confusing sale-exclusives, Amazon will always honor their own coupons.  You can grab some of Amazon’s best here: http://frugaldad.com/amazon-coupons/

Enter to Win 1 of 5 $50 Amazon Gift Cards!

Reward yourself this holiday season with $50 towards your Amazon wish list from Frugal Dad! The holidays are expensive and I know how difficult it can be to adhere to your budget and to resist the urge to splurge on gifts for yourself. With that said, to kick off the holiday season I’m hosting a giveaway for five lucky frugal readers to enter to win a $50 Amazon Gift Card!

A few gadgets that I’ve been eyeing this season are the Nike Plus Sportwatch with GPS by Tom Tom, the Cobra Phone Tag and the Sony 3D Bloggie camera. What do you want most? Remember, you’ve worked hard this year. As you plan ahead for 2012 do keep in mind that you deserve to treat yourself every once in awhile.

You have four different ways to enter! Take advantage of all three to maximize your potential to win.

How to Enter: 

  • Like Frugal Dad on Facebook! http://facebook.com/frugaldad.
  • Follow Frugal Dad on Twitter @FrugalDad.
  • Tweet @FrugalDad and say what you want most this holiday season. Don’t forget to use the hashtag #FrugalDad. Tweet once a day to increase your chances!

Giveaway starts Tuesday, November 15 at 12:01 AM PST and ends Tuesday, November 22 at 12:00 AM PT.

The five winners will be selected by random.org and notified by email or Twitter DM and will have 48 hours to claim their $50 Amazon gift card or a new winner will be selected.

Good luck!

Update: The 10x option has been removed going forward but all those who have already entered this way are still eligible.


Official Guidelines: No purchase necessary to win 1 of 5 $50 Amazon gift cards. Beginning November 15, 2011 at 12:01 AM PST through November 22, 2011. Go to http://FrugalDad.com and complete and submit the entry form pursuant to the onscreen instructions. Five winners will receive a $50.00 Amazon gift card with the approximate retail value of $50.00. The total approximate retail value of all prizes is $250.00. Odds of winning will depend upon the total number of eligible entries received. The giveaway is open to legal residents of the 50 United States and DC who are 18 years or older. Void in Puerto Rico and where prohibited by law. Giveaway subject to complete official rules. You have until 11:59 P.M.  PT on November 22, 2011 to enter this contest. You are limited to one (1) entry per day per person/email address for the duration of the entry period. Five (5) potential winners will be selected in a random drawing per prize. One winner will be selected at random on 11/23 from all entries made before midnight PST on 11/22.

How to Avoid Paying Retail for Christmas Gifts

Does it seem cheap to search for deals on Christmas gifts? Absolutely not; it’s a frugal move, and one I gladly participate in each year.

With Christmas budgets already stretched thin, it makes a lot of sense to use a few cost-cutting strategies when checking off your Christmas list. 

1. Buy online. This one is easy for me. I’d much rather purchase Christmas gifts at Amazon.com than stand in a line with 300 people fighting over limited quantities. Depending on where you live, you can often avoid paying sales tax, too, which can represent a sizable portion of a large purchase such as a computer.

Many brick and mortar stores such as Target and Best Buy participate in Cyber Monday (the Monday following Thanksgiving) deals at their websites where you can find deals similar to the ones that were found in stores on Black Friday.

2. Pay with cash (for larger items). It used to be widely known that if you paid for large ticket items with cash you could expect a deep discount. That’s not always a given these days, because many stores make money on their in-store financing or branded credit cards, and would be just as happy if you financed your big purchase.

Still, it’s worth having the cash on-hand and asking for a cash discount.

3. Buy next year’s Christmas gifts in January. Some gifts are timeless, and if buying the latest hot gadge isn’t particulaly important to those on your list, you might consider picking up some gifts at deep discount after the holiday season shopping rush has passed.

Note, we like to shop for Christmas decorations around this time, too!

4. Don’t shy away from floor models. Just this past weekend I scored a zebra-patterned Parsons chair that will look great in my daughter’s room.

I asked the sales associate if she had one in the back, because the floor model had a few scratches on the legs. She returned with a disappointed look – the only remaining item was the floor model. The chair was originally $79.99, marked down to $59.99. I offered them $30. The manager said they couldn’t go below $40. We settled on $35.

I used a furniture pen to cover the scratches, gave the chair’s fabric a quick wipe down with a wash cloth, and it is now as good as new. Total savings – about 55% off the full, retail price.

5. Use coupons. I rarely purchase anything online without using some sort of coupon or promotional code. Many of these codes offer free shipping, or a discount off your total purchase. There are just too many ways to save not to do a little research.

Of course, I’ve tried to make this easier for readers in recent weeks by offering a consolidated spot here at Frugal Dad for coupons and deals. I highly encourage you to check out this area when you are ready to do some online shopping.

What are a few ways you save on Christmas gifts each year? Share your tips here and at the Facebook page where I’ve just kicked off a new discussion on this topic.