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		<title>Saving Money By Skipping Extended Warranties</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 08 May 2012 02:39:09 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jason (Frugal Dad)</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Whether you&#8217;re purchasing consumer electronics, appliances, or even a new car, someone is probably going to try to sell you an extended warranty. These warranties often seem like great deals, but looks can be deceiving. Extended warranties are a booming &#8230; <a href="http://frugaldad.com/2012/05/07/saving-money-by-skipping-extended-warranties/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Whether you&#8217;re purchasing consumer electronics, appliances, or even a new car, someone is probably going to try to sell you an extended warranty. These warranties often seem like great deals, but looks can be deceiving.</p>
<p>Extended warranties are a booming business for one reason: They make money for the companies that sell them. That&#8217;s why it&#8217;s so important to crunch the numbers before purchasing any type of extended warranty. In many cases, you&#8217;ll be better off just putting that money in a savings account.</p>
<p><strong>The Economics of Extended Warranties</strong></p>
<p>Companies that sell extended warranties are in the business of making money. Some estimates put the yearly revenues of the extended warranty industry at over $25 billion. Since those revenues are built on the backs of warranties and service contracts that failed to pay out as much as consumers put into them, it&#8217;s pretty clear that buying an extended warranty is a losing proposition. There are some circumstances where it makes some sense to buy one, but you&#8217;re usually better off skipping the extended warranty and saving the money.</p>
<p><strong>Examine the Warranty</strong></p>
<p>Some big ticket purchases are incredibly expensive to repair, which can make an extended warranty seem like an attractive option. However, it&#8217;s vital to look at the factory warranty before pulling the trigger. A lot of consumer electronics and appliances have generous factory warranties that cover any problems that an item might develop early on. Statistics show that if an item is going to need repairs, it will typically fail within the time period allotted by the factory warranty.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s also vital to determine whether or not an extended warranty actually provides coverage that the factory warranty doesn&#8217;t already offer. This is especially important if you&#8217;re in the market for a new car because OEM factory warranties are usually quite comprehensive. Some automakers offer up to 10 years of coverage on vital powertrain components, and others provide free service for a specific amount of time.</p>
<p><strong>Look at the Failure Rates</strong></p>
<p>Different items have varying failure rates, so it&#8217;s a good idea to look at some hard numbers before paying for an extended warranty. Some major appliances and consumer electronics have remarkably low failure rates, but extended warranty companies are more than happy to sell you coverage that you&#8217;ll probably never need. According to Consumer Reports, only 10 percent of all dishwashers ever require service, and digital cameras are similarly unlikely to fail. The failure rates of most other consumer electronics are even lower.</p>
<p>Computers are more likely to break down at some point, but about 70 percent of them survive without ever requiring significant repairs. You&#8217;ll typically be better off saving the money you would have paid for the extended warranty because it will probably be time for an upgrade by the time your computer fails. At that point, you&#8217;ll be able to dip into your savings account and apply that money toward your next purchase.</p>
<p><strong>The Cost of Self-insuring</strong></p>
<p>The basic concept of extended warranty coverage is sound. Repairs are often costly, and it can be tough to fit an expensive repair bill into an already strapped budget. However, you&#8217;re typically better off skipping the extended warranty and self-insuring. If you take the money you would have paid for the warranty and put it in a savings account, you&#8217;ll enjoy multiple benefits. The money will earn interest, and it will be available if you ever need to pay for repairs. It will also be available if the item you purchase never needs repairs, which isn&#8217;t the case with extended warranty coverage. If you pay for a warranty and never need it, that money is gone forever.</p>
<p>Extended warranty companies operate just like insurance companies. Some of the warranties they sell actually pay off for consumers, but the majority don&#8217;t. As a single consumer, you don&#8217;t enjoy that protection. However, there is a way you can turn the odds in your favor. Every time you have the option to purchase an extended warranty, you can put the money into a dedicated savings account. Since it&#8217;s highly unlikely more than a few of the items will actually break, you should always have more than enough to cover repair costs.</p>
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		<title>Unsubscribe: A Quick Way to Resist the Temptation to Spend</title>
		<link>http://frugaldad.com/2012/03/29/unsubscribe-a-quick-way-to-resist-the-temptation-to-spend/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 29 Mar 2012 09:00:38 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jason (Frugal Dad)</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Each morning, I receive an email from Amazon.com inviting me to participate in their Deal of the Day &#8211; a low price offering only available for a short time. Most days I simply delete the email and move on. Recently, &#8230; <a href="http://frugaldad.com/2012/03/29/unsubscribe-a-quick-way-to-resist-the-temptation-to-spend/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Each morning, I receive an email from <a href="http://frugaldad.com/amazon">Amazon.com</a> inviting me to participate in their Deal of the Day &#8211; a low price offering only available for a short time. Most days I simply delete the email and move on.</p>
<p>Recently, I&#8217;ve been tempted by several of their deals. First, there was a complete collection of The Little Rascals. Then there was a 32GB memory card at a deep discount. I noticed it was becoming more and more difficult to resist the temptation to click &#8220;Add to Cart&#8221; and part ways with my money, so I unsubscribed.</p>
<p>In fact, over the last several weeks I have unsubscribed from a number of similar &#8220;Daily Deal&#8221; websites, paper catalogs, etc. When I receive a paper catalog in the mail, I call up the customer service number and ask that they remove me from their mailing list.</p>
<p>Yes, I may miss out on an occasional deal, but I&#8217;m OK with that. I am trying to be more intentional with my spending. When I need something, I will seek out <a href="http://frugaldad.com/coupons/">coupons and deals</a>, but I prefer not to receive a constant reminder to spend money in my inbox at 5:15am every day. It starts my day off on the wrong foot &#8211; especially when it is a no spend day!</p>
<p>To expand this exercise a bit, consider all the forms of advertisements we are faced with in a day. From billboards on the morning commute to internet ads to radio and television commercials to junk mail; the list could go on and on. It is becoming more and more difficult to insulate ourselves from the barrage of ads, but there are a few steps you can take.</p>
<p><strong>Skip the Commercials</strong></p>
<p>Our family doesn&#8217;t watch much television, but the programs we do watch are recorded on a DVR and played back minus commercials. I enjoy listening to talk radio during the day, but when commercials come on I find myself reaching for the mute button. I recognize people need to make a living selling ads, but I also recognize there are plenty of other willing participants.</p>
<p><strong>Ad Filtering</strong></p>
<p>A number of plug-ins exist for the most popular internet browsers available that work to suppress a variety of internet ads encountered on major websites.Simply Google &#8220;ad filtering&#8221; for a list of sites where you may download an add-on or plug-in compatible with your browser of choice.</p>
<p><strong>Do Not Call Registration</strong></p>
<p>I&#8217;ve noticed a big jump in the number of telemarketers contacting me via cell phone. Just a few years ago, this practice was unheard of, but with so many people now using their cell phone as their primary contact number, it seems the amount of cell numbers floating around marketing lists has increased significantly.</p>
<p>Register up to three phone numbers per email address at the national <a href="https://www.donotcall.gov/default.aspx" target="_blank">Do Not Call Registry.</a></p>
<p>Naturally, the best resistance to over spending is a strong frugal willpower. However, if you are like me, that willpower occasionally needs reinforcements. For that reason, I try to intentionally make it hard to overspend by removing temptation.</p>
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		<title>Save $100 a Month With Three Frugal Choices</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Mar 2012 12:14:16 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jason (Frugal Dad)</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[In an effort to offset rising costs in food and energy, many Americans are seeking ways to reduce their household expenses. We are no different. During the past few months we have been reviewing our monthly budget and looking for &#8230; <a href="http://frugaldad.com/2012/03/16/save-100-a-month-with-three-frugal-choices/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In an effort to offset rising costs in food and energy, many Americans are seeking ways to reduce their household expenses. We are no different.</p>
<p>During the past few months we have been reviewing our monthly budget and looking for areas to shave. Some categories can be reduced drastically with a radical change (such as canceling your home phone or cable service). Others choices are not quite as painful.</p>
<p><strong>Reduce cable service to basic channel offerings. Monthly savings: $30</strong>.  The idea of canceling cable altogether strikes fear in most couch potatoes. A good compromise is to cut back to basic cable service. You’ll still receive your local cable channels and will be able to use a TiVo or DVR to record network television shows.</p>
<p>Many cable providers offer this bare-bones package at $10-15 a month – compare that to what you are currently paying for 150 channels of things you barely watch.</p>
<p>I also see the use of internet television programming continuing to rise, and with a device such as a Roku player, or internet-enabled television, you can find plenty of offerings (some free, some not) for viewing pleasure.</p>
<p>I keep hoping this will one day satisfy my wish for a la carte programming where I only pay for the few shows that I watch, rather than a huge cable bill every month to receive the 145 channels I don&#8217;t watch. </p>
<p><strong>Skip the bookstores and hit the library. Monthly savings: $30</strong>.  Before I started making an attempt to live more frugally, I frequently picked up a book or two at the local bookstore to the tune of $25-30 a month (this is a conservative estimate as newly released hardcovers typically cost much more).</p>
<p>To satisfy my reading habit in a more frugal fashion I decided to visit a local library. I found the sections on personal finances, career development and personal productivity clustered in one area. I was in heaven!</p>
<p>These days, many libraries support various ereaders such as the Amazon Kindle which allow you to download the content electronically, furthering your savings and convenience factor.</p>
<p><strong>Cancel your home phone service. Monthly savings: $40.</strong>  I was late to the party on this front as several of our friends cut home phone service almost immediately when cell phones (and unlimited in-network and long distance packages) became so prevelant.</p>
<p>I was always a bit leery of doing away with my home phone, largely because I was concerned we would go over our out-of-network minutes making local calls, etc. However, these days so much correspondence takes place over email, Facebook, Twitter and text messages that there isn&#8217;t much need to make local phone calls. The few local calls we make generally fall well short of our out-of-network minute plan.</p>
<p>So you see, with a little creativity and some sacrifice, it is relatively easy to save $100 a month. What will you do with that $100? If you are in debt, I suggest putting the savings towards debt repayment. If you are out of debt, I suggest increasing your emergency fund to a full year&#8217;s worth of expenses.</p>
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		<title>Are You an Extreme Cheapskate?</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 23 Feb 2012 14:10:38 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jason (Frugal Dad)</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[The other night I caught an episode of the new TLC show, Extreme Cheapskates. I was looking forward to the show because it seemed to tap into my frugal interests, although I knew ahead of time the advice would be &#8230; <a href="http://frugaldad.com/2012/02/23/are-you-an-extreme-cheapskate/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The other night I caught an episode of the new TLC show, <em>Extreme Cheapskates</em>. I was looking forward to the show because it seemed to tap into my frugal interests, although I knew ahead of time the advice would be most &#8220;extreme,&#8221; sensational even, in an effort to attract an audience.</p>
<p>I was right. Some of the tactics used to save money were quite extreme (in my opinion), such as a mother of six banning toilet paper from her home and instead using cloth scraps. The used scraps were tossed in a hamper and washed every couple days. Yuck.</p>
<p>Another show participant went around to fellow diners at restaurants with a to-go box in hand asking if they planned to finish the food on their plates. If they said no, he asked if he could take it.</p>
<p>I suppose he should be commended for attempting to reduce food waste, but I&#8217;m not sure how sanitary it is to share the meals of 20 strangers. At one point the show mentioned this family rescued dogs and provided them temporary shelter. Perhaps the scraps were for the dogs. I&#8217;ll give him the benefit of the doubt here.</p>
<p>Naturally, the show also featured a dumpster diver who thought it was classy to dig through the trash to look for his wife&#8217;s anniversary present. I say you don&#8217;t have to spend a lot of money to give or make a thoughtful gift, but digging something out of the garbage to give to someone you love says more about how little you think of this person than your frugal prowess.</p>
<p>The show did have some redeeming moments, such as Jeff Yeager&#8217;s feature (he&#8217;s a fellow frugal writer, in case you have never had the pleasure of reading his material such as his book, <strong><em><a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0767926951/ref=as_li_qf_sp_asin_tl?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=frudad0b-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=9325&amp;creativeASIN=0767926951" target="_blank">The Ultimate Cheapskate&#8217;s Road Map to True Riches</a></em></strong>). Jeff has some excellent ideas for saving money such as bicycling to town for short errands to minimize the expense of operating a car (particularly relevant given the recent run up in gas prices).</p>
<p>Jeff also mentioned something I whole-heartedly agree with, and something I have heard him mention in the past: avoid lifestyle creep.</p>
<p>Lifestyle creep is the phenomenon that occurs when people, over time, allow their lifestyle to &#8220;creep&#8221; higher and higher, costing them more and more money each month to maintain.</p>
<p>This &#8220;creep&#8221; is often motivated by a &#8220;must keep up with the Joneses&#8221; mentality. After all, when we see people driving nice cars, we want one. When our friends and family upgrade houses, we want to do it, too.</p>
<p>The problem is that all this &#8220;upgrading&#8221; causes our monthly expenses to creep ever higher, reducing the amount of free cash flow to divert towards savings (and often leads to the accumulation of debt).</p>
<p>It also means we have to work much longer than those who decide to draw a line in the sand and keep expenses in check as much as possible. Jeff and his wife were able to &#8220;retire&#8221; early by keeping their expenses flat and avoiding the accumulation of new debt.</p>
<p>So while I won&#8217;t be rinsing and reusing any Ziploc bags, or forgoing toilet paper, in the near future, I do plan to continue watching the series and learning small ways to apply new frugal tips.</p>
<p>To me, living frugal is all about <em>avoiding</em> extremes. Frugal people often <em>do</em> spend more money than extreme cheapskates, because we value the quality of items enough to spend a little more up front to get more use and enjoyment of things over the long run.</p>
<p>My fear with this new show is that it will portray &#8220;frugal&#8221; folks as extreme, in general, when in fact the large majority of truly frugal people I know are quite moderate and simply make small decisions throughout their day towards reducing their bottom line.</p>
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		<title>Top Frugality Blogs of 2011</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 05 Dec 2011 22:55:59 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jason (Frugal Dad)</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[It&#8217;s been over two years since I published the Top 50 Frugality Blogs that Will Help You Save Money and during that period of time, while the recession hasn&#8217;t shown any signs of &#8220;being over&#8221;, the resources available to help &#8230; <a href="http://frugaldad.com/2011/12/05/top-frugality-blogs/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It&#8217;s been over two years since I published the <a href="http://frugaldad.com/2009/06/09/top-50-frugality-blogs-that-will-help-you-save-money/">Top 50 Frugality Blogs that Will Help You Save Money</a> and during that period of time, while the recession hasn&#8217;t shown any signs of &#8220;being over&#8221;, the resources available to help you live a more frugal and financially secure life have grown.  I&#8217;m still a huge fan of the sites previously listed, but I want to focus on new sites so that you guys have over 75 incredibly useful sites to turn to for both personal and professional development and how to live frugally.   </p>
<p>So, in no particular order, I present my 35 favorite personal finance/frugal living sites of this year.  If you haven&#8217;t already, I highly recommend that you add them to your &#8220;to read&#8221; list.  And because I know all of you are busy, I&#8217;ve included an interesting post from each site. I hope that you not only find new gems, but rediscover old favorites.  </p>
<p>Feel free to share this list with your family and friends or put the Frugal Dad badge up on your site for your readers to know about the recognition &#8211; and of course, let me know what you think in the comments!</p>
<p>1. <a href="http://www.dumblittleman.com">Dumb Little Man</a> offers a wide array of tips that will help readers save money, become more productive, and enjoy life a little more each day.<br />
<strong>Favorite Post:</strong> <a href="http://www.dumblittleman.com/2011/11/7-warning-signs-that-youve-given-up-on.html">7 Warning Signs That You&#8217;ve Given Up on Your Dreams</a></p>
<p>2. <a href="http://www.getrichslowly.org/blog/">Get Rich Slowly</a> does what its title implies: it offers personal finance advice and contextualizes the larger financial landscape for those who are unfamiliar with this realm. The site features home and mortgage advice, as well as debt relief info.<br />
<strong>Favorite Post:</strong> <a href="http://www.getrichslowly.org/blog/2007/03/23/the-road-to-wealth-is-paved-with-goals/">The Road to Wealth is Paved with Goals</a></p>
<p>3. <a href="http://zenhabits.net/">Zen Habits</a> offers advice on simplicity, health, and inspiration all while promoting frugality and developing a path towards a more zen future.<br />
<strong>Favorite Post:</strong> <a href="http://zenhabits.net/doh/">6 Money lessons for My College-Aged Daughter</a></p>
<p>4. <a href="http://www.debtproofliving.com/">Debt-Proof Living</a> offers its readers a custom-made plan for getting out of debt, alongside a substantial archive of blog posts that lend prime financial insights. You can utilize tools and calculators on-site in order to get started.<br />
<strong>Favorite Post:</strong> <a href="http://www.debtproofliving.com/Community/MoneyRulesDebtStinksBlog/tabid/92/entryid/953/Default.aspx">When Wants Become Needs</a></p>
<p>5. <a href="http://www.donnafreedman.com/">Surviving and Thriving</a> demonstrates, through smart writing and relevant backstories, how frugality is less about denial and more about mindfulness.  The site encourages its readers to make the most of what they have, however much that is.<br />
<strong>Favorite Post:</strong> <a href="http://www.donnafreedman.com/2010/10/06/think-youre-broke-you-probably-arent/">Think You&#8217;re Broke? You Probably Aren&#8217;t.</a></p>
<p>6. <a href="http://artofmanliness.com/">The Art of Manliness</a> aims to rediscover the quintessential elements of a healthy and virtuous man. The blog encourages men to reclaim the positive traits that make them a functioning, responsible and proud member of society.<br />
<strong>Favorite Post:</strong> <a href="http://artofmanliness.com/2011/08/17/a-young-mans-guide-to-understanding-retirement-accounts-iras/">A Young Man&#8217;s Guide to Understanding Retirement Accounts: IRAs</a></p>
<p>7. <a href="http://www.consumerismcommentary.com/">Consumerism Commentary</a> is a sobering but informative and encouraging personal finance blog. Many of the posts tap into current events, and reflect an ever-changing financial landscape.<br />
<strong>Favorite Post:</strong> <a href="http://www.consumerismcommentary.com/is-following-your-passion-a-luxury/">Is Following Your Passion a Luxury?</a></p>
<p>8. <a href="http://genxfinance.com/">Generation X Finance</a> caters its financial advice to those born between 1965-1980. The news and suggestions aren&#8217;t exclusive, however, and other generations can still learn how to control debt and establish a successful career.<br />
<strong>Favorite Post:</strong> <a href="http://genxfinance.com/the-top-5-ways-to-become-a-millionaire/">Top 5 Ways to Become a Millionaire</a></p>
<p>9. <a href="http://www.mydollarplan.com/">My Dollar Plan</a> explores the difficult-to-navigate world of college savings, retirement planning and tax strategies. On top of finance tips, readers can receive deals and discounts to help them save more money.<br />
<strong>Favorite Post:</strong> <a href="http://www.mydollarplan.com/5-alternative-and-creative-gift-giving-ideas/">5 Alternative &#038; Creative Gift Giving Ideas</a></p>
<p>10. <a href="http://www.stopbuyingcrap.com/">StopBuyingCrap.com</a> isn&#8217;t your run-of-the-mill personal finance site. Not only does it offer advice, but its tone is exceptional&#8211;the whole site is devoted to making saving fun and excited, instead of tedious and humdrum.<br />
<strong>Favorite Post:</strong> <a href="http://www.stopbuyingcrap.com/how-to/10-simple-ways-to-feel-rich-without-materialistic-means/">10 Simple Ways to Feel Rich Without Materialistic Means</a></p>
<p>11. <a href="http://www.thedigeratilife.com/blog/">The Digerati Life</a> keeps its readers up-to-date on the latest investment studies and financial forecasts. The site is especially tech-savvy.<br />
<strong>Favorite Post:</strong> <a href="http://www.thedigeratilife.com/blog/save-money-local-travel-staycations/">14 Staycation Ideas &#038; Ways to Save Money with Local Travel</a></p>
<p>12. <a href="http://afford-anything.com/">Afford Anything</a> suggests that time is more important than money. The blog encourages readers to invest wisely, live your wildest dreams, and maximize each moment on their way to a life that is richer in every way.<br />
<strong>Favorite Post:</strong> <a href="http://afford-anything.com/2011/10/03/the-entrepreneur-mindset/">Stop Crying That There Are No Jobs. Create One.</a></p>
<p>13. <a href="http://www.enemyofdebt.com/">Enemy of Debt</a> takes an aggressive stance against debt and helps its readers find and then maintain a debt-free lifestyle. Self-reliance is the name of the game &#8211; the ultimate goal &#8211; on this site.<br />
<strong>Favorite Post:</strong> <a href="http://www.enemyofdebt.com/2011/11/stop-spending-money-it-all-depends-on-your-definition-of-stop/">Stop Spending Money &#8211; It All Depends on Your Definition of STOP!</a></p>
<p>14. <a href="http://www.iwillteachyoutoberich.com/">I Will Teach You to Be Rich</a> takes a hard-nosed approach to ensuring that its readers&#8217; financial lives are advanced and enriched. Strategies are shared through books and other media, and the exploration of psychology is a huge component to the site&#8217;s success.<br />
<strong>Favorite Post:</strong> <a href="http://www.iwillteachyoutoberich.com/blog/7-lies-about-money/">7 Lies We Tell Ourselves About Money</a></p>
<p>15. <a href="http://www.frugalfamily.co.uk/">The Diary of a Frugal Family</a> is devoted to sharing recipes, thoughts, and tips on parenting. The tone is friendly and conversational &#8211; a perfect site to ease your way into the world that is frugal literature.<br />
<strong>Favorite Post:</strong> <a href="http://www.frugalfamily.co.uk/2010/08/homemade-nutella-cookies.html">Homemade Nutella Cookies</a></p>
<p>16. <a href="http://badmoneyadvice.com/">Bad Money Advice</a> is home to the often bitter but entertaining and informative rants of a Boston resident. Frank shares his financial thoughts with readers &#8220;because mainstream personal advice is not what it should be.&#8221;<br />
<strong>Favorite Post:</strong> <a href="http://badmoneyadvice.com/2010/06/a-tax-on-people-who-cant-do-math.html">A Tax on People Who Can&#8217;t Do Math</a></p>
<p>17. <a href="http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/">Pick The Brain</a> is a web site that aims to motivate readers on toward a more productive, healthy and better-educated lifestyle. Self-improvement is the name of the game here, meaning psychology and philosophy are prominent features.<br />
<strong>Favorite Post:</strong> <a href="http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/time-is-all-we-have-3-ways-to-increase-return-on-investment/">Time is All We Have: 3 Ways to Increase ROI</a></p>
<p>18. <a href="http://www.cleverdude.com/">Clever Dude</a> is a smart blog that offers advice on family, marriage and finances. Any and all advice stems from the very mistakes &#8220;Clever Dude&#8221; has made himself &#8211; his family has reduced their debt by at least $200k over a 4-year period; it&#8217;s this first-hand experience with debt that makes this site such a great resource.<br />
<strong>Favorite Post:</a> <a href="http://www.cleverdude.com/content/frugal-lunch-by-clever-dudette/">Frugal Lunch by Clever Dudette</a></p>
<p>19. <a href="http://kiplinger.com/">Kiplinger</a> doesn&#8217;t just give exceptional personal finance advice. Going a step further, the site features business forecasts, and helps readers anticipate and therefore secure their financial future.<br />
<strong>Favorite Post:</a> <a href="http://www.kiplinger.com/features/archives/the-mostoverlooked-tax-deductions.html?si=1">The Most Overlooked Tax Deductions</a></p>
<p>20. <a href="http://www.fivecentnickel.com/">Five Cent Nickel</a> is a forum in which money matters, and the proper management of it matters more. The site discusses credit card usage, savings and CD rates, as well as mortgages and insurance policies.<br />
<strong>Favorite Post:</strong> <a href="http://www.fivecentnickel.com/2009/05/11/estimating-how-much-life-insurance-you-need/">How Much Life Insurance Do You Need?</a></p>
<p>21. <a href="http://manvsdebt.com/">Man Versus Debt</a> is an encouraging website that advices its readers to sell unnecessary belongings (remove the barriers), pay off debt (remove the chains) and then live the adventurous lives they dream of.<br />
<strong>Favorite Post:</strong> <a href="http://manvsdebt.com/tyler-durdens-guide-to-personal-finance/">Tyler Durden&#8217;s Guide to Personal Finance</a></p>
<p>22. <a href="http://www.shoestringmag.com/">Shoestring</a> is devoted to encouraging and maintaining a healthy, cheap and environmentally sound lifestyle. The site offers money-saving tips, as well as a collection of advise on vintage/thrift shopping and swapping.<br />
<strong>Favorite Post:</strong> <a href="http://www.shoestringmag.com/diy/homemade-condiments-just-like-grandma-made">Homemade Condiments: Just Like Grandma Made</a></p>
<p>23. <a href="http://www.suddenlyfrugal.com/">Suddenly Frugal</a> is a warm, inspiring and humane site that offers coupons and savings advice to mothers and families.  Leah has years of experience, having been raised from childhood that being frugal is a lifestyle, not a whim.<br />
<strong>Favorite Post:</strong> <a href="http://www.suddenlyfrugal.com/2011/12/4-tips-for-charitable-contributions-at-the-holidays/">4 Tips for Charitable Contributions at the Holidays</a></p>
<p>24. On the <a href="http://www.financialsamurai.com/">Financial Samurai</a>, personal finances are explored and discussed in-depth. Possibilities for a more secure future are provided to the readers, and are done so with a tone that&#8217;s informal/safe yet informative.<br />
<strong>Favorite Post:</strong> <a href="http://www.financialsamurai.com/2010/04/19/please-dont-have-children-if-you-cant-take-care-of-yourself-orphans/">Don&#8217;t Have Children if You Can&#8217;t Take Care of Yourself</a></p>
<p>25. <a href="http://www.budgetinginthefunstuff.com/">Budgeting in the Fun Stuff</a> provides readers with a savvy lineup of personal financing advice. The owner posts her monthly budget and leads the way to a more frugal life by example.<br />
<strong>Favorite Post:</strong> <a href="http://www.budgetinginthefunstuff.com/tipping-after-a-bad-experience/">Tipping After a Bad Experience</a></p>
<p>26. <a href="http://20somethingfinance.com/">20 Something Finance</a> provides advice on reducing clutter, casting debt away, and finding the career that&#8217;s most suitable for you.  This site is particularly geared towards those in their twenties, as the title suggest.  As their tagline states, &#8220;Get a Head Start on Your Freedom&#8221; &#8211; great advice.<br />
<strong>Favorite Post:</strong> <a href="http://20somethingfinance.com/american-hours-worked-productivity-vacation/">The US is the Most Overworked Developed Nation in the World &#8211; When Do We Draw the Line?</a></p>
<p>27. <a href="http://www.lovemoney.com/">Love Money</a> keeps their readers abreast with an ever current roll of articles, blogs, and news from pertinent media outlets. Love Money focuses primarily on a British population, but the financial tips and psychology is transferrable.<br />
<strong>Favorite Post:</strong> <a href="http://www.lovemoney.com/news/travel-food-and-lifestyle/food/13531/the-uks-cheapest-ever-meal">The UK&#8217;s Cheapest Ever Meal</a></p>
<p>28. <a href="http://sweatingthebigstuff.com/">Sweating The Big Stuff</a> is unique in that it is operated by a recent college grad.  He wants to help others spend wisely as he goes through his own fiscal maturation.<br />
<strong>Favorite Post:</strong> <a href="http://sweatingthebigstuff.com/different-types-of-student-loans/">The Different Types of Student Loans</a></p>
<p>29. <a href="http://www.thebudgetfashionista.com/">The Budget Fashionista</a> embarks on the mission to find quality yet affordable clothing and apparel.  She enthusiastically invites all of her readers to join in on the process.<br />
<strong>Favorite Post:</strong> <a href="http://www.thebudgetfashionista.com/archive/sell-gift-card/">How to Sell Your Gift Cards</a></p>
<p>30. <a href="http://thefrugalcook.blogspot.com/">The Frugal Cook</a> is a compelling food blog, replete with astounding recipes and ideas for affordable but tasty meals and beverages.  Fancy, difficult sounding recipes become a possibility &#8211; both in the kitchen and on your wallet.<br />
<strong>Favorite Post:</strong> <a href="http://thefrugalcook.blogspot.com/2011/09/how-to-entertain-on-budget.html">How to Entertain on a Budget</a></p>
<p>31. <a href="http://www.frugal-rv-travel.com/">Frugal-RV-Travel</a> is a fun, unique site that encourages readers to see life as an adventure. The bloggers document their affordable RV travels, and offer advice on how to follow suit.<br />
<strong>Favorite Post:</strong> <a href="http://www.frugal-rv-travel.com/Overnight-RV-Parking.html">17 Tips to Find Free Overnight RV Parking Anywhere</a></p>
<p>32. <a href="http://www.milliondollarjourney.com/">Million Dollar Journey</a> offers an empirical glimpse at today&#8217;s financial situation. The writer lives through and manages the same issues we all do, and most of the the advice given comes from personal experience. There are also a lot of educational articles written on mature investments.<br />
<strong>Favorite Post:</strong> <a href="http://www.milliondollarjourney.com/how-investing-taxes-work-part-1.htm">How Investing Taxes Work; Part 1</a></p>
<p>33. <a href="http://www.doughroller.net/">Doughroller</a> is a site about making, saving, giving and spending money. The site regularly posts advice on real estate investing, on gaining and using insurance, and on the mastery of credit card debt.<br />
<strong>Favorite Post:</strong> <a href="http://www.doughroller.net/smart-spending/51-painless-money-saving-tips/">55 Painless Money Saving Tips</a></p>
<p>34. <a href="http://www.entrepreneur.com/">Entrepreneur.com</a> is a community forum in which today&#8217;s top technological and financial developments are discussed. A special focus is placed on what it takes to establish a startup, franchise, or other business.<br />
<strong>Favorite Post:</strong> <a href="http://www.entrepreneur.com/article/220805">Scrambling to Build a Business on a Viral Trend</a></p>
<p>35. <a href="http://money.msn.com/saving-money-tips/">Smart Spending</a> combines the best monetary advice from MSN Money and other blogs/sites. Retirement, loans, and taxes are heavily featured.  Articles are posted quite frequently and are great for those testing out the financial waters.<br />
<strong>Favorite Post:</strong> <a href="http://money.msn.com/saving-money-tips/post.aspx?post=cb0ad8a2-a41d-4f58-a209-b4e7f6d97b44&#038;_blg=200">Should You Raid Your 401k?</a></p>
<p>Check out these other great sites that made the previous <a href="http://frugaldad.com/2009/06/09/top-50-frugality-blogs-that-will-help-you-save-money/">best frugal living list</a>.</p>
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		<title>The Four Phases of Frugality</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jason (Frugal Dad)</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I have not always been frugal. In fact, there are times now where I often feel less than frugal, as I occasionally make an impulse purchase or indulge in something that isn&#8217;t exactly frugal. But hey, I&#8217;m human. What I &#8230; <a href="http://frugaldad.com/2011/11/29/the-four-phases-of-frugality/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/somegeekintn/3882793857/"><img class="alignleft size-thumbnail wp-image-11018" title="In Need of a New Wallet by somegeekintc on Flickr" src="http://frugaldad.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/11/tatteredWallet-150x150.jpg" alt="In Need of a New Wallet by somegeekintc on Flickr" width="150" height="150" /></a>I have not always been frugal. In fact, there are times now where I often feel less than frugal, as I occasionally make an impulse purchase or indulge in something that isn&#8217;t exactly frugal. But hey, I&#8217;m human.</p>
<p>What I have noticed over the years is that our frugality has gone through very distinct phases, nearly coming full circle (but not quite).</p>
<p><strong>We&#8217;re Deep In Debt &#8211; Time to Cut ALL Spending</strong></p>
<p>A few years ago we found ourselves deep in debt, and decided we&#8217;d had enough of sending our paycheck to banks and credit card issuers. I returned to my frugal roots (which I&#8217;d lost for much of my 20s, or as I like to call them, my &#8220;Spendthrift Years&#8221;).</p>
<p>We instantly recognized that to reduce our debts we had to work on both sides of the equation &#8211; income and outgo. I also recognized that I couldn&#8217;t instantly boost the income side of that equation, but we could make a significant dent in expenses. And make a dent we did.</p>
<p>We canceled the cable. We stopped eating out. We stayed out of stores, movie theaters, and anywhere else that might try to separate us from our money. To us, that money represented something very precious &#8211; a debt payment &#8211; one step closer to debt freedom.</p>
<p><strong>OK, We Still Have to Have SOME Luxuries</strong></p>
<p>That first phase lasted a good six months. We made significant progress towards debt freedom in that time. Then life happened. My mom had a devastating illness that rattled our family, and after a year of grueling rehabilitation following a stroke, she died at the age of 53. Relatively healthy one week; then in the hospital for 102 days, and rehabilitation for months to follow.</p>
<p>It was a life-altering event for all of us. For me, it was a reminder that life was short. I began to question our radical spending cuts. We weren&#8217;t having much fun. The kids missed their favorite television channel. My wife and I missed the occasional dinner out as a break from the routine of cooking and cleaning. We all missed taking an annual vacation (which we had skipped a couple years in a row throughout the ultra-frugal phase).</p>
<p>I felt like a big, mean, financial ogre ruling over the household with an unyielding zeal for frugality.</p>
<p>So, we decided to loosen the tight grip on our finances, just a bit. We did ultimately reach debt freedom, but it probably took a little longer than it would had we continued our Spartan existence.</p>
<p><strong>Debt Freedom &#8211; Ready to Spend Again</strong></p>
<p>Once we reached debt freedom, we went a little bit nuts. Seriously. We made up for our lack of vacations with <strong><a href="http://frugaldad.com/2010/05/17/disney-vacation-tips/">a trip to Disney World</a></strong> &#8211; the first for our kids. There wasn&#8217;t very much frugal about that trip, but we decided our first visit would be a fun one without much consideration to costs. Admittedly, this strategy was not financially smart in hindsight.</p>
<p>In the coming months we also did a little clothes shopping, and spent money on a few other things that had been put off for months (even years). I&#8217;m not proud of that time, because looking back, it was sort of antithetical to everything I&#8217;ve written here at Frugal Dad. Again, what can I say, I&#8217;m human.</p>
<p><strong>That Was Fun, Now Back to Frugality</strong></p>
<p>I guess the major difference in the old me and the new me was that this time around it was much easier to recognize my spendthrift ways and get control of them. Rather than putting everything on a credit card (which has a way of really adding up), we decided to go back to an all-cash basis, with the occasional debit card purchase.</p>
<p>We took a more frugal vacation this fall, spending a week in the mountains and enjoying the peace and quiet (a much different setting than Disney). We clip the occasional coupon, order water with our meals and split the occasional entree. We&#8217;d rather stay in and watch a movie than go to the theater. We look for sales to proactively buy seasonal clothing for the kids. You know, the little frugal moves that don&#8217;t cause much pain, but still help keep that expense side of the equation from creeping up to high.</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve learned many lessons over the last few years, but this last one was the most important. <strong>Being able to recognize when you are off track and make small course corrections is really a key to financial success.</strong></p>
<p>The old me would have never recognized I was off track, and if I did, I would have just floored the accelerator into the nearest wall. I lacked the financial maturity (and I&#8217;m not referring to age) to keep myself in check.</p>
<p>So I&#8217;d encourage you to celebrate milestones, like <strong><a href="http://frugaldad.com/2009/11/04/our-journey-to-debt-freedom-cresting-the-hill/">reaching debt freedom</a></strong>, with a little spending splurge. Do something you&#8217;ve been longing to do, but put off because you were in debt. Upgrade an item or two around your home that adds value to your life.</p>
<p>Should that spending slope begin to feel like a slippery one, remember what it felt like to be in debt and adopt our family motto, &#8220;Never again!&#8221;</p>
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		<title>Who&#8217;s Making Your Lunch?</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jason (Frugal Dad)</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[In an old Peanuts cartoon, Charlie Brown complains day after day because all he has to eat for lunch is a bologna sandwich. His buddy Linus finally asks him, “Well who’s making your lunch, Charlie Brown?” Charlie Brown solemnly replies, &#8230; <a href="http://frugaldad.com/2011/09/29/whos-making-your-lunch/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In an old Peanuts cartoon, Charlie Brown complains day after day because all he has to eat for lunch is a bologna sandwich. His buddy Linus finally asks him, “Well who’s making your lunch, Charlie Brown?” Charlie Brown solemnly replies, “I am.”</p>
<p>This brilliant animated moment illustrates the fact that all of us have choices – about how we spend our time, and our money. We may not want to believe it, but we are in full control of the choices we make.</p>
<p><strong>Just About Everything We Do or Don&#8217;t Do is of Our Choosing</strong></p>
<p>Sometimes it feels like we have very few choices. Maybe because circumstances have us pinned down in our current job, or we owe too much money to make a move, etc. But the simple act of getting up and going to work is a choice.</p>
<p>Unless you live under communist rule, you still have a choice whether or not you get up in the morning and head to the office, and you have a choice regarding your place of employment. Accepting that can actually make bad jobs feel more tolerable.</p>
<p>You might even have this little conversation with yourself in the company parking lot tomorrow morning: &#8220;Yes, my job stinks, but I am choosing to go back in and put in a full day&#8217;s work.&#8221;</p>
<p><strong>Thank God it’s Friday! Oh God it’s Monday!</strong></p>
<p>I was once stuck in a bad job in a toxic environment &#8211; I mean really toxic. I was stressed out, burned out, and basically fed up with my job. And then in a moment of clarity it occurred to me that <em>I was making a choice every day to get up and go to work.</em></p>
<p>Sure, I would be fired if I didn’t go. My family would lose our employer’s health insurance. A steady paycheck would cease to be deposited in my bank account. Our bills wouldn’t get paid and we would probably lose our car, our home and our other belongings. All those things were negative consequences of my decision not to go to work, but I still made the <em>choice</em>.</p>
<p>Essentially, I was choosing to exchange my time in a lousy job for pay, benefits and the ability to keep our stuff.</p>
<p>These same lessons apply to our finances. I’ve known many couples over the years who have been envious of my wife’s position as a stay-home mom. It does not come without sacrifice. However, my wife and I agreed early in our marriage that she would stay home with our kids until they were school age or beyond.</p>
<p>The cost of daycare and employment-related expenses would make breaking even difficult, and getting further ahead nearly impossible. I chose to drive an older vehicle for many of those early years, took my lunch to work nearly every day and we both gave up many costly hobbies and collections so my wife could stay home. She has put her educational and career goals on hold for the same. We made a choice.</p>
<p><strong>Life’s Too Short to Spend It Being Miserable</strong></p>
<p>If you are stuck in a dead end job, or are working just to make a car payment, consider setting yourself free by giving up some of life’s luxuries.</p>
<p>Consider a mother of two paying $800 a month in daycare expenses for her three year-old and a newborn. At $20 an hour it will take over <em>40 hours</em> of work each month just to pay for childcare expenses (actually, it will take about 55 hours when you factor her household&#8217;s earnings are in the 28% tax bracket).</p>
<p>Then factor in the cost of a work wardrobe, a car, higher maintenance costs on that car, gasoline, eating out, etc. and suddenly you realize that mom is simply working to pay for the pleasure of working. Seems illogical doesn’t it, assuming she would rather stay at home and raise her kids?</p>
<p>I certainly don’t begrudge couples who agree to both spouses working. I was raised by a single mother who didn’t have a choice. However, if given the choice, I would always vote for mom or dad staying home with the kids, particularly if it was something they always dreamed of doing.</p>
<p>I would now encourage you to reflect on the goals you have sacrificed because you feel financial pressure to stay in a bad job<strong>.</strong> Sell the car. Cancel the gym membership. Move to a cheaper place. Stop eating out. Make the tough choices now so you can spend your remaining life energy doing the things that are most important to you.</p>
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		<title>Being Frugal With Other People&#8217;s Money</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 27 Sep 2011 14:37:28 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jason (Frugal Dad)</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I am always amazed to learn how many business executives are quick to spend &#8220;the company&#8217;s money,&#8221; but more frugal when it comes to their personal household budgets. But this phenomenon is certainly not limited to business people. In fact, &#8230; <a href="http://frugaldad.com/2011/09/27/being-frugal-with-other-peoples-money/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am always amazed to learn how many business executives are quick to spend &#8220;the company&#8217;s money,&#8221; but more frugal when it comes to their personal household budgets. But this phenomenon is certainly not limited to business people.</p>
<p>In fact, politicians probably do a better job (or worse, in this case) of spending other people&#8217;s money than anyone. I&#8217;ve even known some churches to operate this way, as well, with a church board or council quick to drive a congregation deep into debt by expanding their building, and then using tithes to serve interest payments on the debt.</p>
<p>This seems to be the ultimate hypocrisy to me, which is probably why I will never be asked to serve on any church boards!</p>
<p>I am frugal by nature, and save a few luxuries, don&#8217;t spend a lot of money on myself. But I am much more frugal with other people&#8217;s money.</p>
<p>I would much rather work in a spartan office than a lavish one.<br />
I don&#8217;t expect a company to pay for my personal expenses that I&#8217;d have to pay anyway if I didn&#8217;t work there.</p>
<p>I have a theory that the less people have to work for the money they get to spend, the less frugal they are spending that money.</p>
<p>In other words, the general contractor out the door at 6:30am and hustling until dark to renovate properties for a living will be much more careful with his expenditures than a government agency funded by tax payers&#8217; money negotiated by a 3rd-party lobbyist.</p>
<h3><em><a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B003UESJEW/ref=as_li_tf_tl?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=frudad0b-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=217145&amp;creative=399373&amp;creativeASIN=B003UESJEW" target="_blank">The Company Men</a></em></h3>
<p>The other day I was home sick with a touch of flu. The only bright spot was getting to catch up on a couple movies. I didn&#8217;t remember hearing about <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B003UESJEW/ref=as_li_tf_tl?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=frudad0b-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=217145&amp;creative=399373&amp;creativeASIN=B003UESJEW" target="_blank"><em>The Company Men</em> </a>when it was released, but the cast seemed good and I liked the storyline.</p>
<p>The movie&#8217;s plot is taken directly from the headlines around the beginning of the financial crisis back in 2008. A large conglomerate with divisions in manufacturing, ship-building, healthcare, etc. is looking for ways to boost their stock price and turns to massive layoffs as a way to reduce costs.</p>
<p>While I understand layoffs are sometimes necessary to survive a downturn, or to eliminate &#8220;unnecessary reduncancies,&#8221; I think it should be a last resort. In the movie, the company&#8217;s CEO is in the middle of purchasing a renovating a new corporate high-rise, complete with an &#8220;executive&#8221; floor dedicated to the CEO/CFO offices, etc. He runs down the list of lavish amenities just after agreeing to lay off another 5,000 employees.</p>
<p><em>Related Reading: <a href="http://frugaldad.com/2008/04/10/how-to-survive-a-company-layoff/">How to Survive a Layoff</a></em></p>
<p>I suppose some level of greed is part of human nature. Or maybe it is true that power does corrupt. Regardless, I think we all have a responsibility to be good stewards of money, especially money that doesn&#8217;t inherantly belong to us.</p>
<p><em>Do your frugal ways carry over to the office?</em></p>
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		<title>Soup and Clocks: A Meditation on Frugality</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 28 Aug 2011 15:26:01 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Laurel Gray</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Today, as I was making a pot of chicken soup, I suddenly remembered a conversation I had over 15 years ago about a grandfather clock. At first blush, soup and clocks might not seem to have much in common, but &#8230; <a href="http://frugaldad.com/2011/08/28/soup-and-clocks-a-meditation-on-frugality/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div id="textpreview">Today, as I was making a pot of chicken soup, I suddenly remembered a conversation I had over 15 years ago about a grandfather clock. At first blush, soup and clocks might not seem to have much in common, but to me, they help frame and define what it means to be frugal.</p>
<p>First of all, making homemade chicken soup is a tremendously rewarding exercise in frugality. After basing two dinners around the whole roasted chicken, amply rounded out with vegetable side dishes, the remainder is ready for the soup pot. I throw everything&#8211; bones, skin and all&#8211;into the pot.</p></div>
<div>Soon, the warm aroma of frugality fills the kitchen, and I am ready to start tossing in everything else I have lingering in the pantry and refrigerator. I start with a lonely potato, an onion and a less-than-perfect carrot. Then I throw in some dried barley, leftover tomato paste and some rosemary from the garden. After that, a few more herbs go in, as well as a handful of diced string beans that need to be used up.</p>
<p>As I was extracting the boiled-clean bones from the pot, the apparent non-sequitur of the grandfather clock popped into my mind. I wasn’t actively thinking about frugality at the time, but a few synapses deep in my thrift lobe must have made a connection. In a twinkling, the long-forgotten clock memory floated to surface.</p></div>
<h3>Picking Sides</h3>
<div>Years ago, I was working as a consultant for a large corporation with offices up and down the East Coast. I was doing some training in the Philadelphia office and was chatting with a clerical-level employee during a break. The woman was lamenting the fact that her mother wanted to buy a grandfather clock.</p>
<p>The woman had a low-level job, but had excellent benefits and job security. She was from an inner-city environment where she probably enjoyed more stability and financial well-being than many of her neighbors. In other words, she was dong fine but probably still saw poverty as a threat.</p>
<p>Her otherwise-thrifty mother was fixated on purchasing a grandfather clock. The whole idea exasperated her daughter, who saw the idea as a useless extravagance. Even though I am frugal by nature and shy away from showy purchases, my immediate gut-reaction was to side with the mother.</p>
<p>I could envision the mother as a child, growing up poor in a big city where opportunities were scarce. Did she visit a more successful relative with grandfather clock? Did she pass one in a shop window as a little girl? Did she see one in a movie? Whatever the origin of the desire, in her mind, the clock represented something much more significant that a simple timepiece.</p>
<p>As we go through our lives, pinching pennies by driving old cars, passing up the latest electronic gizmo, or making soup from a three-day-old chicken, we should remember the lesson of the grandfather clock.</p></div>
<h3>Extravagant vs. Frugal vs. Spartan</h3>
<div>We all carry within us some desires that are important in an elemental way, important to our idea of self. For the clerk’s mother, some significant ideal was represented by her desire for a grandfather clock. For you, the desire might be a trip to Paris, a piano, a huge fish tank or a beautiful piece of artwork for your home.</p>
<p>If you decide to spend money on a meaningful item that touches your soul and makes you happy in an enduring way, then it is not extravagance. Extravagance should be avoided, while keeping in mind the distinction between being frugal and being Spartan.</p></div>
<div>To be Spartan is to deprive yourself of things that nourish your sense of well-being.</div>
<div>To be extravagant is to see every new gadget as essential to your existence.</div>
<div>To be frugal is to know the difference and to act only when the item demonstrates its value, regardless of whether that value is emotional or practical.</p>
<p>As I stirred the soup, I weighed these concepts with a little smile. I don’t know if the clerk’s mother ever bought the grandfather clock. But I like to think that she did.</p></div>
<div><em>This article was written by contributing author <a href="http://frugaldad.com/author-laurel-gray/"><strong>Laurel Gray</strong></a>.</em></div>
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		<title>The Secret to Frugal Living: Small Course Corrections</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 21 Jul 2011 14:46:27 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jason (Frugal Dad)</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[A family member recently forwarded me an interesting article, knowing my interest in all things frugal. The article appeared in Yahoo! Finance and was entitled, What My Little Indulgences Really Cost. My response to most of these types of &#8220;ways &#8230; <a href="http://frugaldad.com/2011/07/21/the-secret-to-frugal-living-small-course-corrections/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A family member recently forwarded me an interesting article, knowing my interest in all things frugal. The article appeared in Yahoo! Finance and was entitled, <a href="http://finance.yahoo.com/news/First-Person-What-My-Little-ac-2498600811.html?x=0" target="_blank">What My Little Indulgences Really Cost</a>.</p>
<p>My response to most of these types of &#8220;ways to save&#8221; articles is to immediately find myself disagreeing with the author&#8217;s chosen categories to cut. No, not the gym membership! Or, is a latte a day really going to kill your budget?</p>
<p>However, in this case, I thought the author made a few important points in line with my way of thinking, and living, frugally. For instance, the excerpt below is a hot topic in the Frugal household: dining out.</p>
<p>Whether we are debating eating dinner out or staying in, or my daily challenge to brown bag a lunch rather than hit the drive-thru, food expense is a budget buster in our family. I suspect that is true in most families these days thanks to our compressed schedules and ever-rising <strong><a href="http://frugaldad.com/2011/01/18/prepare-for-food-inflation/">food inflation</a></strong>.</p>
<p>Here&#8217;s what Shauna had to say on the subject of eating out:</p>
<blockquote><p><em>With a family of five, I don&#8217;t always feel like cooking. On those nights, Taco Bell or McDonald&#8217;s comes in handy. Even when I indulged a few times a week, I wasn&#8217;t spending boatloads of money. I&#8217;d buy the multipack of tacos or chicken nuggets, designed to feed five on a budget. However, shelling out $20 twice a week meant I was spending $2,080 a year. How did I fix it? When I cooked, I would make and freeze a couple of extra meals for those nights when I didn&#8217;t feel like cooking.</em></p></blockquote>
<p>A perfect example of someone making a relatively small shift in their way of doing things to produce a frugal outcome.</p>
<p>Not all shifts produce giant returns like choosing to stay home rather than eat out. Hanging a load of towels and jeans on a drying rack, or even better, on a clothesline outside, might only save you a couple bucks in energy costs over running the dryer. But it&#8217;s the cumulative savings that add up.</p>
<p>Staying in for dinner, line-drying heavy clothes, drinking water instead of soda, and yes, even skipping the daily latte (I prefer to make things like this a once-a-week treat rather than eliminating them altogether), all add up to big savings over time. But do these cost-saving measures come at a cost as well.</p>
<h3>The Costs of Being Ultra-Frugal</h3>
<p>Declining lunch invitations all the time might cause you to miss opportunities to network with coworkers (read the book <em><a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0385512066/ref=as_li_tf_tl?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=frugaldad0c-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=217145&amp;creative=399373&amp;creativeASIN=0385512066" target="_blank">Never Eat Alone</a></em> for more thoughts on the subject).</p>
<p>Habitually skipping a few indulgences may cause you to binge on them at some point and blow more than you&#8217;ve saved by being ultra-disciplined. For instance, consider the over-used diet analogy. Those trying to lose weight are often encouraged to have a small piece of cake occasionally, because depriving yourself for too long breeds internal resentment, and at some point you&#8217;re defenses will weaken and you&#8217;ll down half a cake in one sitting.</p>
<p>Living frugal is about making small course corrections over time that eventually add up.</p>
<ul>
<li>Check out books at the library and only buy those you know you&#8217;ll want to refer back to in the future.</li>
<li>Skip the weekly trip to the movie theater and instead make it a once-a-month treat for your family.</li>
<li>Bring your lunch to work four days a week, then splurge a little and eat out with your team on Fridays.</li>
<li>Schedule a &#8220;date night&#8221; out every couple weeks to give yourselves a break from the cooking/cleaning routine, but consider splitting a meal to reduce costs.</li>
<li>Avoid debt, and associated interest, by saving cash for large purchases. You&#8217;ll appreciate them more after waiting a few months and debt-free ownership usually leads to more happiness with the product over time.</li>
</ul>
<p>Those are just a few things our family has been trying to do to move towards a more frugal existence.</p>
<p><em>What are some small course corrections you&#8217;ve been making to live more frugally?</em></p>
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